Question Posted Thursday December 18 2014, 2:54 am
i want to know whether i am wrong or right.i m 13 years old.i m female
a year before i met a guy on fb who was very friendly with me and was very flirty.he was 10 years elder than me. that time i was very innocent and didnot know anything about friendship and all that lot.i didnot used to add unknown people on fb butt as my frds had many frds so i also started adding unknown people. he was one of them.he used to msg me now and then so one day i replied him.i felt he is very nice.we use to chat whole in between he used to talk something non veg butt i ignored.a day came that i felt he is a very of my life i used to tell him all about my life. he also propose me and i accepted. butt after some time i realized that he was not serious he used to compare me with girls and was a mutual frd between me and my other frds who are more beautiful and intelligent than me. he used to degrade me hat i m mad i am everytime disturbing him but i was very attached with him that i ignored all these things. he used me physicall by asking my naked pics butt i was very folish to send him. i didnt saw anything behind him and he told my skul frds everything that happend and they all spread this in whole skul.
Dragonflymagic answered Thursday December 18 2014, 4:25 pm: I assume you want to know if you are doing the right thing in having an online friendship with someone 10 years older. No, it's dangerous because at your age you are still a minor and he is an adult. Even boys 18 are adults and have no business trying to approach you on line or in person for a friendship.
Being a minor isn't the only issue for you. You have about 12 or more years until the pre-frontal cortex of your brain finishes growing. Until then, you aren't fully capable of making good decisions on your own. Here's more about it: The prefrontal cortex, is a section of the brain that weighs outcomes, forms judgments and controls impulses and emotions. This section of the brain also helps people understand one another. The prefrontal cortex section of the brain in teens is still a little immature as compared to adults; and it doesn't fully develop until your mid-20s. So you are simply not going to be able to see all possible ramifications of indulging in a friendship with someone that age. The fact that he asked for naked photos shows that he isn't just some innocent guy who thought you were his age, he purposely sought you out to win your confidence and get naked pics. The next step someone like him dos and is arrange to meet you in person somewhere and rape you. I would suggest you tell your parents about him so they can advise the police about him. Theres a special crime unit devoted only to catching people like this who prey on young teens, or even little children. He may be older but he has something wrong with him mentally if he's not making grown up decisions and acting like a middle schooler by broadcasting the thing about your naked pics around the school. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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