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I like a gril
I am a boy and I am 12 and I like a gril but how do I get her to like me
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Yes, it's important to talk to a girl and become friends first. But the question then is...what do you say if you've never talked to her before? Hopefully you've been smiling at her or saying Hi when crossing her path up til now. If not, it's a good thing to start. It's one clear sign to a girl that a boy might like her. Try to hang out near enough to overhear her conversations with friends and listen for anything that you could add a comment or information to.
Example: You hear them discussing a brand new on the scene teen band called Burnham (yes they are for real) a trio of brothers who make up the band and they are asking each other if either knows when their debut album is coming out. Your sister likes them and has followed news on them. None of them know so you step in and say, "Excuse me, I overheard your conversation. My sister happens to know when, I dont remember but I can get the info from her and share it with you. They'll now be fully focused on you including the girl you like. This is lots more successful way to begin to get conversation going than singling one girl out and walking up and saying Hi, I'm Eric and I like you and am wondering if you'd like to be my girlfriend. You might get a girl who responded but the great majority quickly learn that a guy they know nothing about may turn out to be someone they don't even like and now they're in an awkward position of being your 'girlfriend?? Girls would rather get to know just a little bit about you first through talking as classmates and casual friends. Try to keep conversation going. Introduce yourself. Get the names of any you don't know. Ask the girl if there are other bands they like right now. You can offer up names of groups you like too, find out if they are familiar with a particular artist or song and offer to share one of the songs off your phone or make a copy of it for her or one of her friends. A guy who can be nice to and treat all females well and politely with respect is going to have girls wanting to be friends with him.
If you want to try talking to just her, compliment her on something like if you heard she got an A on the latest test. Say congratulations on getting an A. I didn't. Or if you struggle with the subject, ask if she might be willing to give pointers and help. You could ask how much she studied, or if its just a favorite subject of hers. At the end of the conversation you say, you've enjoyed chatting with her and would like to do so again soon, maybe sit together at lunch or briefly in the hall, on walk home or on bus if riding, or in the neighborhood if you live close together. Talk about anything you'd talk to your friends or family about. If you have a pet, tell her about your pet and ask if she has any. Maybe ask if you can meet her dog one day and you'll invite her over to meet your dog. There are so many things you can talk about. Ask her about herself, people like to talk about themselves. Listen carefully to her answers, dont daydream because you are looking for something she says that brings up a memory of your own, even just a litle thing, or one word. Like she just mentioned a favorite food dish that includes sausage. You have a relative with a pet snake called Snausage. You tell her about that and then try to say something funny to make her laugh. yES, its true girls like a guy who can make her laugh and its the most wonderful thing for a guy to hear if he made her laugh. Those are some examples. If you need more idea's and help on how to talk to girls, let me.
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yeah i same the samething here. most girls like a guy thats already a good friend because they'll feel like they can be themselves and be more comfortable with them. just be nice to her, try to hear her out when she wants to talk about things going on in her life. girls are more emotional then boys so they will like it if they feel like your listening to them. and invite her to go places and do things with you. if she starts to do the same then you know shes starting to really like you. just keep that going and sooner or later she will tell you how she feels.
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You have to talk to her and make friends with her first, girls always like someone who's already their friend. It's good if you're funny too, I always like a guy who can make me laugh.
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