There is a girl at school that lets me feel her boobs and ass. She is super hot and way out of my league. She curvy and skinny, im fat. When she bends down to get books out of her locker I rub her ass. She'll turn around smile and feel my man boobs. We do this all day sometimes I start it sometimes she starts it. I just want to know why she doesn't mind.
adviceman49 answered Thursday August 14 2014, 4:48 am: I agree with Dragonflymagic. Pretty girls spend more time home alone on Saturday nights then you might think. The reason is guys like you and me take one look at them and say; "wow she's beautiful she would never go out with me." We think that girls that look like her will only go out with the Hunks on the sports teams.
Some of those girls are that shallow but most are like you and me. They are a bit awkward around the oppose sex, nervous and would almost never walk up to any guy and start a conversation.
This young lady sees something in you she likes. I can't say she will go on a date with you or not but it does seem like she wants to be friends. Why not ask her out for a soda or something after school. If that works ask her out on a date.
You really have nothing to lose. Just remember two things. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and Beauty is only skin deep. She may be looking beyond what you say is your being fat and seeing the real you. what you need to do is get over the fact of her outward appearance and get to know the person under the wrappings for that is all her outward beauty is, a package wrapping just as your body as fat as you may believe you to be it is nothing more than a wrapping of the person beneath. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday August 13 2014, 6:20 pm: I am not her, so I cant say what is in her mind. If you want to know why she doesn't mind, ask her.
It might seem forward to ask her but you've already gone way beyond that in touching her before asking permission to do so. Asking first is better way to go than waiting to get possibly slapped.
I will say one thing about the really hot girls in school. Often they can be the loneliest people because all the guys who have interest in her as a person won't even try to approach her, talk to her or ask her out because they think she is unattainable, out of their league cus they feel too ordinary compared to her.
Maybe thats the case with her and she gets no attention. Maybe she feels bad attention is better than no attention.
But that will change in months or a year or two when other guys get braver and start talking to her. If one of the guys guys looks hotter, she may be taken with him. All girls though just want attention and friendship and romance from a guy to start, without anything sexual. Girls want to be respected and have a best friend in a guy first and time to develop deep feelings for him and the same from him before being ready for sex. There's always a few girls who welcome and give it up for whatever their reasons are but these girls are not the kind to really value you for who you are as a person because their agenda comes first and if you fit in their plan, they'll use you just as guys use girls. It's a much nicer way to go to start out searching for a girl you are attracted to who wants to be friends with you and is attracted also. Not everyone is shallow looking no further than skin deep although teens mostly haven't learned that yet and have low self confidance to boot.
As I said to begin with, if you really want to know ask her and if she even has a clue why she allows it, she'll tell you [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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