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going to the beach w/my boyfriend tmrrw but on my period..
I'm female-14, my boyfriend asked me to go to the beach with him tomorrow and I said I would go, but then I got my period, an I've never used a tampon. plus I've heard that you shouldn't go in the beach with a tampon, but i don't know. my mom said she would show me how to use one and to just wear shorts, but I'm not so sure...
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Go to the beach. Most likly this wont be the only time in your life you are asked to go swimming when you are on your period. Dont let our period stop you from having a life one week out of every month. You can definately go into the beach with a tampon in. Thats one of the many advantages of using a tampon. Swimming can actually help you during this time as well. Those horrible cramps in your tummy can be relieved with the exercise you get while swimming around. Good luck and have fun with your boyfriend you deserve it!
I posted some helpful links below.
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here is a little information on swimming while on your period
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here is a site that tells you how to use your tampon while swimming
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Here is a video that shows you how to insert a tampon (dont worry its not a real person just a drawing)
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I had my period for about 2 and a half years before i started using tampons and i strongly suggest them. I'm a perform so when I'm on my period id on't feel and don't get distracted. My biggest fear was using them in water. It's really not a big deal. Very easy, just let your mother show you and try it!
But if you don't like tampons, that's okay. They're not for everyone! :)
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There's no reason why one cant go into water while wearing a tampon if you really want to. Girls on swim teams have been using tampons cus periods don't always come at a convenient time and you can't just tell the swim coach that you can't swim for the next 5 days.
It takes a while getting the hang of it. I remember when me and sis were that age and used tampons the first couple of times, our biggest problem was not putting it in far enough, fearing we'd get it in too far and not get it back out. LOL The result was that part of it was at the outer part of the vagina and felt uncomfortable, felt like it was in the way every time we moved, sat. It also felt like it was about to fall right out. THe solution was getting it all the way in. It can't go any further than where it bumps against your cervix. Average length of a vagina is only a bit longer than the tampon. YOu'll note that tampons do not have different lengths, only difference in how thick. They have a sturdy string on them which when pulled will bring the tampon back out. Never in all my life did a string come unattached and leave a tampon still inside. Only other concerns I had as a teen was how it felt removing it. If the tampon is wet and full, the wetness acts as a lubricant and it removes easily. Just tug slowly. If its the end of period and it is mostly dry, it may not slide out as easily and you feel it drag against the skin but just go slow and it will still come out.
If you find you are still uncomfortable using it as soon as tomorrow, then don't go in the water at all and tell him its not a convenient time for you to be able to do that. Maybe next time. If he likes your company, it really won't matter what you're doing, as long as you're hanging together.
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All tampon packages come with pictures and instructions. The best way is to get by yourself in the bathroom and practice. After you get it you will wonder why you didn't try these things sooner! When you have your period they are the best invention since chocolate! If you are still uncomfortable getting in the water just wade along the beach with your boyfriend. Boys do know that girls get their periods so I am sure if you say "I don't really feel like swimming, I have cramps" he will get the picture and be happy along the shore!Have fun!
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Hi there! Wow I remember this kind of scenario happened to me once, just not with a guy, I was going to the beach with my friends. Actually, using a tampon at the beach isn't bad at all. You should try using them because you can't just use a pad all your life. It's a smart idea to learn now rather than later. It may seem weird or uncomfortable at first, but it gets better. And if you need any more advice, go to my page and ask! I really hoped this helped you! Have fun tomorrow!
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