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Question Posted Monday June 9 2014, 12:19 pm

I think death is my answer. I have no life . How can I end it all I'm chicken but I want to. Or give my life to someone who really needs it like a cancer patient... but not sure if I'll be around long enough to read and answer that no one gives a cap about but I don't have anyone I can talk to. Who knows but that's my best bet ....

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WishesAndHope answered Thursday June 19 2014, 2:37 am:
First of all death is never the answer . Right now is probably the hardest part in your life and that happens to everyone . All you have to do is find something to take your mind off of the bad things in life . Try playing games or sports or something that you would have an interest in doing . Dont give up , i promise you good things happen to those who wait . this time right now is the waiting part that your going through and in the end of your waiting something really good will happen to you . keep your head up , put a smile on your face and dont let people or stuff bring you down . trust me ive been in this situation before too . it just takes patients to get through this .

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday June 10 2014, 4:54 am:
So far there are at least 3 people that give a crap. Me and the two others that have written back to you.

If you have written to us for help in dying you have come to the wrong place. We are not here to help you die, but we will help you live. I know it seems to you that there is no other solution to whatever is bothering you then to end your life. Death is not a solution, it is not even the answer to a question.

I would like to help you live; we can start with why you feel no one gives a crap. There are three of us that give a crap or we would not have answered you. To help you though we need more information. I have been doing this for a long time and I know that for every problem there is a solution. I know this from my advice here and personally for when I suffered from a deep depressive episode.

When a person contemplates suicide it is because they are suffering from some form of depression. This depression alters our perception of things so we are not seeing things exactly as they are. This is where we and the people or organizations that I will offer to you, who I believe can offer you more one on one, help can help you.

I learned and so will you that there is no problem so huge it can't be corrected. You will also learn that the people you know do care about you each in their own way. Your parents care about you so do your siblings. They may not show it in the manner you think it should be shown but the do care and your dying would cause them a great deal of hurt.

I'm going to offer you two hotlines to call for help. One or both should be able to help you get the help you need to get past whatever it is that is bothering you.

If after reading all of this you still feel suicidal please call 911 and ask for help. Calling 911 is the fastest way to get the help you need.

Hotlines Call 24/7

1-800-273-8255 - National Suicide Prevention Hotline: No matter what problems you are dealing with, they want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7.

1-800-668-6868 - Kids Help Phone: They offer phone counseling to people under 20.

Both hotlines are free and everything you tell them is totally confidential. So please call one or both.

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MsNoName13 answered Monday June 9 2014, 4:07 pm:
Listen to talldivaofbeverlyhillz. Everything they said is correct. You do have a life, and it is so precious. DO NOT throw it away.

I also care about you, people out there care about you. You may just not realize it.

I don't know what is happening in your life, but I do know you shouldn't die because of it.

I sincerely hope you read these answers and don't go through with it, you have no idea how worried I am just from this...

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talldivaofbeverlyhillz answered Monday June 9 2014, 2:30 pm:
Hi, I am dreading that you won't heed my advice, or even be around to read this, but please, please read it quick because I have some things to say to you.
I give a crap and I honestly want to listen to you all day long talking to me about everything. I have never been more sincere in my life. and NO, DEATH IS NOT YOUR ANSWER. suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Our lives are too precious to be taken from us because of what anyone else has ever stupidly said or done to us.
Please don't kill yourself. Life is complicated and stupid at times but out there, somewhere in this confusing as hell world, there are people that love you and would run across the universe so that you don't commit suicide.
plus, if by any chance, your suicide attempt fails, you will be remembered as the selfish, weak and crazy person that tried to kill their self. and you are NONE OF THOSE THINGS.
the world and the people in it can be annoying and stupid but out of the millions and millions of souls that live, a couple thousands of them honestly care.
anyway, i desperately wish that you could speak to me, at least tell me that you are alive if you don't want to speak to me. but just know that me and another 100,000 people really do want to listen.
please don't kill yourself. whatever else you can do to escape your agony besides committing suicide; do it. and if by any chance you desperately need someone to listen and speak to you, tell me.
love, talldivaofbeverlyhillz

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