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I lost my best friend. She is very mad at me, and I can't handle it anymore
I lost my best friend, she is insanely mad at me, and the whole thing is over. Like, the thing passed and there is no reason to be mad at me anymore, how do I get over it, because these days have been very depressing. How?
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If she's still mad at you and there's ABSOLUTELY NO reason to be mad at you. Then, she's not worth being your friend. True friends always stay by your side no matter what the issue is. When I was in the 5th grade I made up an excuse that I was mad with my bestfriend so we wouldn't be friends anymore. Maybe that's what she's doing? But remember, a true friend does not get angry at you easily and doesn't make up lame excuses to avoid you.
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Another thing you didn't mention is age. The reason I wonder is if you both are still going through puberty, her emotions could be naturally haywire right now and it could take some time.
Some girls go through severe emotional changes and any little thing can set them off. Trust me, at some point, if this is the cause, its very likely she'll come around and seek your friendship again once she;s processed thru the worst of it.
If i guessed wrong and
If there are certain circumstances that happened and a time frame too, as has been mentioned, that might be helpful to possibly give you some advice.
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It would help us better to know what she is angry at you for and for how long. If this is something recent and over it may still take time for hurt feelings to adjust. If you have been friends for a long time I'm sure she will come around. It may suck but perhaps giving her space and more time will help.
You could approach her and tell her you know you upset her with whatever your actions were. Tell her you value her friendship and would like to talk things out and make the situation right. Perhaps if she sees your sincerity it may make a difference. It's all in her court really with what she thinks but at least you can show her where you stand.
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