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I am thinkinf of sleeping with my bf for the first time
I am wanting to sleep with my bf. I am a virgin he isn't. I was wondering what is the easiest and less painful way to do this. Should he do it slowly an inch at a time or push in slowly all at once? any tips or opinions on this would be greatly appreciated.
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I was in this same situation about 3 months ago! Everyone told me that my first time 'was going to be painful' but I couldn't disagree more! Obviously make sure you have condoms and I would advice a tube of lube- it makes everything a million times easier!
If you are relaxed and well lubed up then it shouldn't be too painful! Just make sure that you communicate with him about what feels good and what doesn't. Sex only works if you talk about what is working and what isn't!
My main advice would be to stay calm and enjoy yourself! Everything will come naturally in the moment so have fun in the moment and do what works for the both of you!
Good luck x
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If your a virgin, make him buy some condoms and a tube of lube. youll need alot the first time because your going to be very tight and his penis will break your hymen and you may bleed a tinsy bit. Have him move very slowly and everything should be fine. just start out slowly and well lubed. put lube on the condom he's wearing as well.
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Tell him to start by putting one finger inside of you. Then he should add a second finger. Then he should spread his fingers inside of you like a V. Then add a third finger. Then he can put his penis inside of you.
As for you, start by having ONE glass of wine. You do not want to be intoxicated, but one glass can help loosen the muscles. Then it is your job to relax. Sex is not painful unless you are nervous.
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