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HELP ASAP: Girl threatened me?
So me and my friend were getting revenge on these 2 girls. Yes I know it's bad, and I learned my lesson. But they found out and said that tomorrow I would be sorry. I don't know if I want to tell the teachers either, because then they will talk to her about it. Then she'll know and try to hurt me even more because i'm a "snitch". She's a really violent girl and I'm not a fight type of person. Please help. Yes I know it was bad of me to get revenge and everything but i'm really scared. Please please help me, I don't want to go to school tomorrow.
I have to go to school eventually, and I only have to go like 20 more times before Summer then I probably will never see her again. But I'm scared. The only time she would be able to hurt me would be after school, but there's teachers near me. I still feel like she would try to do something. Please help as soon as possible. Sorry if this is long I just really need advice here.
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You sound like a teenage girl to me (I'm a teenage girl, too so I'll tell you what I would do). I totally understand how you don't want to tell your teacher or parent(s). But if the situation starts getting out of hand, you'll have to. My advice if you're not gonna tell an adult: All day at school travel with a group if friends, don't go anywhere alone, and try to stay near teachers/adults, that way she's less likely to strike. If you can, you and your friend should apologize and talk to her if you want. (If you choose to apologize, I would do it at a park or some other public place because not only will there be witnesses, but you can have friends hiding in the bushes or just nearby, in case the girl starts to get violent. Best of luck to you!
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Hey there,
First of all stop panicking- the more you think and worry about this the more you are going to get stressed by it.
If I were you I would have a word with my parents about this, whether you are close to them or not they normally have a very good idea about how to deal with these sort of issues. After all they were at school once as well and they probably went through or knew of a similar incident.
I would also tell a teacher. By the sounds of your message you are getting really quite worked up about this all- and this girl sounds rather nasty. Being called a 'snitch' is much better than getting beaten up in my point of view anyway!
The sooner this gets sorted, the better. She will have forgotten about the whole thing by the summer and you can enjoy your time off school! But defiantly go to a teacher about this and keep yourself safe because this is an incident of bullying an NO school should accept bullying!
Hope everything works out alright for you and don't feel scared of going to school- it should be a nice environment not one you are scared of!
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Revenge is one thing being threatened is a whole other thing. In your revenge if you did not make any threat to her and you have not yet carried out your revenge then you have not harmed her.
An example of what I mean would be: You can plan to rob a bank but until you actually rob the bank the police cannot arrest you. They can only advise you not to if they learn of your plan. A plan is not an act.
A threat to harm someone is altogether different. If someone threatens to harm you and is capable of doing so that is a crime. It is called Assault. You could if you want report this threat to the police. If you two are seniors is high school then you are certainly old enough to know better and the police could charge her as an adult. Depending on how serious the threat they could charge her with a felony.
My advice would be to notify the police of her threat. Then if she or any of her friends do you any harm she is the first person the police will go to. If any of her friends do you harm she will be just as guilty as the police will see it as her putting them up to it. This will all be explained to her by the police.
You do not have to go to school scared. Besides threatening you she is bullying you which is another law she is breaking. If she is the violent person you say she is then the police may be all too familiar with her. In that case they may take her into custody.
Where I live if a student is taken into custody by the police for any reason the are automatically suspended from school until their case is adjudicated at which time they could face expulsion. Your school system may have the same rules.
You can also go to court and get an order of protection from her which would make it hard for her to be in the same school with you. A documented threat to the police almost guarantees the court will issue an order of protection ordering her to stay away from you. How far away will be up to the courts.
My advice is to call the police.
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