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How do you become a heartbreaker
I have a crush on this guy, but I don't know what he thinks. Signs point to: he has a crush on me. But he's the hottest guy in school so girls are always kissing his butt, and he's always playing “hard to get" I admit I'm a hopeless romantic. I know that heart breakers get the guy all the time. How do you become one without spending much money? Or being “fake?"
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You said yourself you're a hopeless romantic. You said you don't want to be fake. Pretending to be something you're not is fake.
Life isn't TV. That's not how it works. Nobody really wants to be with someone who breaks hearts. Why would you want to do that to people anyways? Peoples feelings matter and breaking hearts isn't nice. You don't want to even come off as someone like that.
If you want the guy, be yourself. You don't need to kiss his butt or anything, just be yourself. More guys will go towards the girl who is comfortable with herself and won't be fake to get a guy.
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I think that you should be yourself. Don't try to be a CLICHE and copy what you see on t.v. A guy wants a girl who will be herself around him. He doesn't want a girl who is trying to do all these tricks just to get him to like them. BE YOURSELF. Don't try to become a "heart-breaker" or whatever that is. If you think this guy has a crush on you, it's because he likes you for you.
And about being Fake (this is just my opinion), if you have to change yourself at all in order to get a guy or girl to like you, then that is being fake.
Just be yourself. IT WORKS.
~Andrew~
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My best advice is to just be you. If you try to seem like a heart breaker he most likely wont want to be with you because of the breaking hearts. Be your self and ask him to hang out. The more you see eachother and the more you hang out you will get to know him. And you will see if you two are compatable.
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Going out of your way to become a 'heartbreaker' is an act of manipulation, so it's inherently 'fake'.
Most girls and guys who break someone's heart don't do it on purpose. It's not a badge of honour. It usually makes everyone involved feel pretty down.
Want to know what he thinks about you? Ask him.
Straight up ask him. That'll set you apart from the girls who just kiss his butt. Remember: Lots of people who 'play hard to get' are actually insecure and don't know how to take the next step. Put yourself out there and take what you get back. That's the furtherest thing from fake, and will probably take him by surprise.
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