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A random guy asked for my number?..
I don't even know this guy. He randomly asked me for my number, then a teacher I was with said "What did you say?" Then he said "I can't tell you. It's business"... I'm really confused about it honestly. I don't want to give him my number and I didn't, but it's creeping me out. What should I do? And what did he mean by "business"?..
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Okay, something doesn't add up. You have every right to feel creeped out. This guy for one thing if he is attracted to your looks and interested in getting to know you, he's doing it all wrong. He should go on line and look for dating do's and don'ts on how to approach a girl. This is one of those classic things guys do wrong that creep a girl out.
Something else that doesn't sound on the level, is why did he ask you for your number in front of a teacher? Isn't that a private thing? Or is he really thinking this out too much and thinking that if he asks you in front of a teacher that he will seem more okay to you cus he's got nothing to hide from anyone knowing he asked for your number?
Okays, lets say he's really socially inept and thats why he did this. So if he was brave enough to ask for your number in front of a teacher, then he should have been brave enough to explain to the teacher why without being mysterious about it. The idea about gals and guys dating is being they are attracted to some qualities about the person beyond the outside attributes that visually attracted them in the first place.
One is not supposed to date someone if they creep you out, and yet many girls do simply because "a guy paid them attention and they have low self esteem and in their minds, being asked for phone number or on a date by a strange guy or a well known one, all equates to validating her existance in her own eyes. Because this has worked for other guys in the past, many never learn how to approach a girl, start conversation and get to know her and then ask her out.
If I were you, I would ignore the incident and pretend it never happened. If by chance he approaches you once again and asks for your number, it's not your job to train him how to approach girls properly so you can politely refuse to give him your number and if he asks why, you can then tell him that his way of approaching you frankly creeps you out and that if he really is a nice guy and truly interested in dating girls that you suggest he might go on you tube and search for dating tips for guys. I have watched some of these and have cracked up laughing as the guy acts out how the guy approaches the pc screen pretending its the girl, his speech, his body and facial language. Its so typical...and yes I have seen it before. Let me know if you want some of the links to look for yourself and I'll provide them.
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I'm not exactly sure, but maybe he was just hitting on you cuz he seen you and wanted your number? Maybe his friend made a bet with him? Or maybe he was actually just wanting your number so he could give it to a survey company. None of us would actually know why and if you're still curious you could just ask him why if you see him.
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