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This guy is really creeping me out?
There's this guy in my class that's just really creeping me out. He's starting to text me everyday now (He tries to find excuses to text me) and it's just annoying and creepy. I text back because I don't want to be rude... Yesterday, I made it clear that I'm taken. I don't like this guy at all I like someone else. He also told me he liked this other girl, which is a good thing I guess, but he's just overall really creepy. I blocked his number now for good, but how do I avoid talking to him at school? Just ignore him? Please help as soon as possible. Thanks x
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Yesterday you made clear that you already have a guy. So give it some time to see if he changes his behavior.
Throughout your life, you will find yourself at tracted to certain people for friends, whether girl friends or boyfriends. You aren't going to automatically like everyone or you'd be close friends with every girl in school. I can't say what exactly it is that makes two girls have something in common to become friends or a particular guy to be your friend, but I'd have to say its a little of everything, personality, things in common, etc..there some kind of draw to them, some kind of connection. So if the guy continues to approach you at school, You'll have to say something nice to not piss him off but still be clear like, "Hey David, I'm sure you 're a nice guy and all, but I just don't feel any connection to you, not even a friendship connection. So I am not interested in hanging out with you anywhere, not even here at school.
I wish you the best on making some new friends. But I don't want to be one of them.
Sometimes it takes being really black and white in your conversation for a person to get the idea of what you're saying. If the guy doesnt take you seriously and continues to follow you everywhere like a lost puppy dog, you might have to talk to a counselor at school and see what they have to say about it, or what they can do to help.
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I know a guy like that. He's pretty normal in person though, but he'll text me all the time even when I give him short answers or even if I don't reply. He'll even talk to me about another girl.
I think if he does try to talk to you at school, be nice but not too friendly. I mean if he comes up to talk to you, you don't have to be like, "You're creepy, go away." You can say hi and stuff then continue doing whatever you were doing. Do make him think you guys are now best buddies and are gonna hang out all the time. He'll probably get the hint when he sees you're not answering his texts and barely talking to him at school.
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Blocking him was an okay move, and yes, you should ignore him at school. You could even just be honest with him if he tries to speak to you and say "I don't want to talk to you."
Sometimes 'trying not to be rude' can actually leave us behaving even more rudely then if we had just been honest. You don't need to call him names, or tell him he is creepy, but the kindest thing you can do is be clear. Don't text someone (or talk to someone) who makes you uncomfortable just to be nice. Instead, realize that being nice means saying as much when you don't want to talk to someone at all.
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