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First time smoking weed.


Question Posted Friday January 10 2014, 2:52 am

I'm a girl freshman in high school. My friend asked me if he could smoke me out and I said yeah. We're gonna go smoke but I've never smoked before. I don't even know if I need to bring my own piece or something. I don't know how to even smoke at all. I've seen it it seems with a pipe people put the weed in and light it and just inhale it. Seems easy enough. Any tips? Also any tips on how to hide it other than perfume & eye drops ? We're gonna smoke in a park btw. I don't want any hate comments, I could care less I'm just trying to get high man.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday January 10 2014, 11:21 pm:
I understand that you have already decided to do this. And I also know that it puts us all here in a difficult spot to tell you anything or give any advice to help you in your determination to smoke enough pot to get high. Just recently, a high school kid asked for help because other kids who also smoke ratted on him to school officials and the school has a zero tolerance for students who smoke pot. In many states it's still illegal to use no matter what, in some states, only medical use. I am not against it for medical use. I have no problem either when it is used in moderation, just a little to help a person relax when stressed. But I don't think that qualifies as a medical condition to get treatment for, tho I could be wrong.

The biggest problem you face, no matter how grown up and mature you feel you may be, is that the pre-frontal cortex of your brain is not done developing and wont be until your mid 20's. This area of the brain is responsible for weighing outcomes, forming good judgments and controls impulses and emotions. This section of the brain also helps people understand one another.

I was a teen once, though fairly mature, I know I had a hard time with some judgement calls and didn't stop to weigh the consequences if things were to go wrong. Perhaps you are mature, but I'd have to say that in this one instance regarding getting high on pot, you may not have remembered to weigh the consequences. I take pot to help with menopause symptoms. On occasion, I happen to smoke a bit more than needed, unintentionally cus the effects of it were delayed, I couldn't feel it, thought it might be too old and smoked extra. I know what its like to have too much, it's the same stuff that happens when I might have too much wine which I can count on my hand how many times in my life that has happened. I begin to lose motor control of my body, whether, drunk or high, a person in that state is not capable of driving or thinking straight or many other things. Too much of anything can be bad for you either in instant effects or effects that occur over time. Even sugar which in itself is not a poisonous substance, if eaten in excess over time, can cause diabetes.
Just ask yourself why you feel the need to get high. Usually getting high or drunk is something that happens when someone is wanting to be accepted by a peer...at any age, and we feel like we're more likely to be accepted if we do stuff like this. If you have a life that you hate that you're trying to block out of your mind and thats why you're willing to start using pot, the thing is, pot won't cut it after a while and you'll be on to street drugs to get the same mind numbing effect. It is better to go after the cause if this is the case for you and get counseling on other better choices for dealing with your situation, but that means not being too proud to not speak out and ask for help.
If you still want to smoke just to try it and be able to say you've done it, think again...what kinds of good decisions are you going to be able to make with two things against you, 1. Being stoned, 2. Having an incomplete brain ability to handle. This guy is a friend. What if you both had sex and are too stoned to think of condoms and you become pregnant or he's got access to a car and drives while stoned getting into an accident where you and both of you are injured terribly, scarred for life or dead. Those situations are very common ones that happen to teens all the time who are not drunk or high at the time, and are much more likely when you are.
Just think about it again before actually going through with it.

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Xui answered Friday January 10 2014, 2:06 pm:
Well, I am not going to encourage how to use weed.

Looks like you found the wrong place to ask, I am one that is against it unless it's for medical purposes.

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laynemayhem answered Friday January 10 2014, 9:27 am:
You've never a smoked before and you're "trying to get high man"?

Here's a tip:
Don't ask questions like that on here. I have nothing against marijuana, but you're going to get someone into trouble. Marijuana is legal in 3 states but that doesn't mean we can talk about it openly, let alone, tell you how to smoke it. Where I live, it's illegal.

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