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how to get my bf to talk about sex and get him a little horny
so me and my bf been going out for about a month now and were both 15 and he's close to 16. he is really nice and respectful and never had a gf before and we talk on the phone a lot we don't really talk about sex and I tried to start it off by saying what are you wearing but it got to nowhere or he didn't know what I was trying to do and we only kissed before. with my ex's we loved to talk about sex and loved to make out but my bf is different. in need help or tips on how to get him to talk about sex with me and how to get him a little horny. he's a boy so he must have a little freaky side to him. I don't want to have sex cuz I don't think we both ready, but I like to still have a fun with him like making out, talking about sex and let im know its ok to touch me in some places. like they say everyone has a freaky side it just takes the right person to bring it out can anyone help me with any advices please.
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Most of the time it's easy to talk to your boyfriend about it because if you guys have a good relationship, you can talk about anything. Since it's only been a month, you can just try being direct about it.
But I also agree with adviceman. You could ask him about his values and such to see how he feels on the subject. Maybe he doesn't want to do more than just kissing. So you can start from there and see what he says.
Probably not a good idea to talk about sex yet since it's only been a month and you don't want to have sex yet and that would just give him the wrong idea and make him think you're going to eventually give it to him.
So just talk to him and be honest.
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Your correct when you say you are both to young for sex. You are also correct when you say you would like to make out with him. At your ages making out is what is appropriate for your ages just as long as you keep your clothes on.
You say you are his first girlfriend so you will have to take the lead on this. One question to as is "What are you values?" If he asks for clarification?" You can be direct and ask how he feels about sex before marriage, making out with girls, masturbating and other questions. You can also be indirect by asking about Abortion, teen pregnancy and other questions that would lead up to the first questions.
You know him better than I do so which route to take is yours to pick. I'm sure you don't want to scare him off and if he seems shy then the direct route may be the wrong route.
You also have to be prepared for him to respond in the form of a question' One possible answer he could give would be, "I really haven't put much thought into that type of question what are yours." In this case you should be prepared to answer. That answer would be, based on what you have written, something like. "Well I think I'm to young to be having sex but I do think it is okay to make out. IF I like a boy a might let him touch me in certain places, I just won't allow him to take my clothes off. Then go from there.
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