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Christmas present?!?
My boyfriend and I have been officially been together a year. On and off before for two years.. He ordered me a pair of Swarovski earrings I wanted and let me pick a few presents myself with his credit card.. We haven't had the best relationship a lot of fighting etc.. He told me he got me another present that I am going to shit myself when I see it those were the exact words.. And that it was small.. His mom told me she saw it and she was so surprised coming from him and it really came from the heart.... I'm so confused first thing I thought was a ring but I don't know... What else really comes from the heart and I'd shit myself when I see it??
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We just have our ups and downs sometimes I already have a promise ring so I didn't know if it was the next step not sure
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It does sound like a ring. But who knows, maybe it's something completely different. Maybe he got you a small expensive necklace? Or even a promise ring.
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It could be a ring, but I would also be asking myself whether it would be a good idea to accept it considering you haven't had the best relationship.
I agree with Dragon on that one sorry.
A ring is beautiful, but sometimes we should really ask ourselves whether we should accept the commitment especially if the past has been on the rocks.
I wouldn't really jump the gun here as I could be wrong, There are many small things that are nice. However, I think the whole term "You are going to shit yourself and that it was small" kind of blew it if it were a ring... Way to spoil the entire thing not?
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Well hey, earrings are a small item.
Why did you feel the need to put in the phrase " We haven't had the best relationship a lot of fighting etc.." I'd be asking myself that rather than wondering what the gift may be. I know nothing about him and you and whether your constant fighting is due to making common mistakes in relationships that can be helped by both of you seeing a relationship expert for some training and teaching if you think he's the one to be with. If the fighting is what occurs as a natural result of the two of you being too mismatched, then I would question whether the money being spent on me, was just to buy my love.
Giving gifts may be his 'love language' of the basic 5 types of ways to show you love someone and that is okay but then I don't know that, can only guess here. If there wasnt constant fighting, I'd have no concern whatever the gift or how many he gives. Your inner voice may be trying to tell you something or maybe he's perfect for you.
If it is a ring, you'll need to decide if he's the one you want to marry. He could be referring to the amount of money spent on other things like showing mom a key to a brand new car he bought you or a plane ticket for a fancy vacation like the Bahama's or something. Who knows. You'll find out in a couple of days. Merry Christmas
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