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I can't tell if my crush likes me


Question Posted Monday December 9 2013, 11:24 pm

I'm so confused whether my crush likes me or not! I've searched dozens of websites and I'm still not so sure! So I'm going to explain how our relationship is right now.

1. He's really sweet and funny! Always making jokes and making me laugh all the time

2. We talk about the most randomness stuff ever and we're so comfortable with each other to talk about the most difficult subjects

3.We share food and drinks! Every time at lunch we trade drinks, share a cookie, etc.

4. IDK but I guess he's with me all the time and always wants to be with me
For example when the teacher made new seating arrangements he personally asked the teacher to sit right next to me!

5.He smiles and laughs a lot with me more than with his usual friends! And he always makes the dumbest excuses to be near me
For example "Oh I'm going to sit here because the sun is blinding me" ( He's saying this when it was cloudy)

So I know it definitely looks like he likes me but I'm not really sure and should I ask him out?


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lightoftruth answered Tuesday December 10 2013, 6:26 pm:
He has some of the signs. It's either he likes you or sees you as a really close friend and likes to hang out with you.
Who knows, instead of trying to guess if he likes you, try hanging out with him outside of school. Invite him to go to the movies, bowling or some other activity with some of your friends. If he goes, there's a better chance he's interested. If he does end up going, then try hanging out with him some more and then maybe just hang out as the two of you. If he agrees to that, the he definitely likes you.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday December 10 2013, 6:00 pm:
He is definitely showing all the signs that he is attracted to you and wants to be with you. And you enjoy conversation with each other. You're at stage 2 of a possible relationship. Stage one is attraction and showing that interest by finding excuses to be near, etc... Stage 2 is beginning conversation with to see if you are still interested in the person and have things in common to talk about, stage 3 is to start dating to find out even more about each other through spending more time together. It need not be formal dates like out to movies or to dinner but just time hanging out in each others presence. If all goes well in this stage, deeper feelings for each other will develop and you both mutually agree to become a committed couple, still dating but stage 4 is making the commitment to each other as you're no longer dating to find out more about...you know enough now to know you don't want anyone else, just them.

So someone has to ask the other out. He may be overly polite and leaving it up to you to make that move so he's not pressuring you. Or he could be a bit shy about things like that. So ask if he'd like to spend some time with you away from school. It doesn't have to be an official date to the movies type thing, just ask if he'd like to come hang at your house and maybe talk, watch something on tv, play a board game...just think of anything that you have an interest in and invite him along.

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Xui answered Tuesday December 10 2013, 5:57 pm:
The best way to know is just to ask him, It sounds like he may like you but we can only judge from what you wrote.

A website isn't going to tell you whether he likes you or not.

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