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Sex with mom
Lately,my mother has been flirting with me!!! She is 42,and im 21. We have always been very close,but now I see her in a new way!! As soon as my.stepdad leaves for work,she changes clothes!!! She will wear tiny shorts,low cut tops etc. and acts normal!! My cock betrays me and gets huge everytime!!! She sees how hard I am and just smiles !!! My mom looks alot.like Sharon Osbourn,and has big full british tits!!! She loves showing them off,almost completly!!!! What should I do??
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Tell her to fuck off that you are her child and that is very wrong unless u wanna have sex with her
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Slightly different angle...is it possible that she might be flirting with a neighbour, or someone she meets in every day 'office hours' life? While her partner is at work? Do you spend a lot of time purely together, or does she seem to spend time in the garden, around the local area etc in her skimpy shorts and so on? Maybe a younger guy, and she's pleasantly amused at seeing she can sexually arouse a younger man easily...proving she's still 'got it'? At 21 you are more likely to find situations very confusing, by 42 you've seen a lot of things. Don't worry too much at getting an erection and feeling excited by the sight of an obviously attractive woman, dressed in a way that's almost certain to please a guy. Even if it's a relative. The sexual response in a guy of your age will often have a 'mind of it's own' as it were, untroubled by conscience and ethics. I agree totally with adviceman here, if relieving yourself de-fuses the situation by all means do it. And if she's the object of your fantasy while you do it, then don't beat yourself up. In fact, dealing with it IN fantasy is a good way of dealing with the situation, it's a good 'safety valve' for handling situatuins we do not really want to face head-on in real life. Naturally, you should steer clear of actual physical realisation of the desir. It is NOT acceptable to have sex with your mother. True, it's not unheard of. Incestuous relationships DO occur. And in the 'heat of the moment' as you might say, anything can happen. Ultimately, such relationships are a dead-end and will most probably entail massive and long-lasting emotional issues in both of you afterwards. Ones that neither of you can forsee. But remember, desire is not the same as acting upon it...so try to keep the mental and physical aspects apart. As for confronting her, I'd definitely try and find out whether there's an un-related local chap in the picture...or it might be an action you'll badly want to undo! You mention that you are close, if the relationship would stand a lighthearted 'Mum...you're giving me a hard-on in those tight shorts and flashing your boobs...go easy...it's worrying me!' type comment then you could maybe drop it in at a relaxed and opportune moment. And be set to watch her immediate response carefully. But this of course depends very much on the state of your regular mother/son relationship. I've tried to answer this in some depth here, hope it might shed some light or give you a few ideas. Neither of you are, I assure you freaky or weird even if there is an innapropriate sexual attraction there at the moment. It's an area of the human psychological mechanism which is well researched and has been understood for a VERY long time. It's really about dealing with it in an acceptable and harmless way. Long-term the desire to bond emotionally and physically with partners we are NOT related to is much stronger. Hope I may have helped, sounds like you're 'proper vexed' as you might say. Bets wishes.
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that is not right or normal you both should seek professional help,your mom for changing dressing like that to you ew and you for thinking of your mom sexually ew please seek help asap
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Take cold showers, masturbate if you need to but do not consider having sex with your mother. While I realize there are numerous stories on the web about boys having sex with their mothers. They are for the most part just that; stories.
Having sex with a close relative, mother, father, sister, brother, first cousin and even grandparents is consider incest and is not only wrong in the eyes if god. It is also illegal in all western countries and all states in the U.S.
Talk with your mother about the way she dresses around you. Tell her you find it provocative and would like to know why she must dress like that when it is only you and her at home. Make sure mom understands that while you find her manner of dress provocative nothing will come of it between you. That if need be you will take care of yourself with Miss thumb and her four sisters. Yes, I would be that blunt.
Should your mother say anything about wanting to fulfill a fantasy of having sex with her son. Suggest to her she find a therapist to work this out with for it is wrong to have these thoughts.
Your also 21 if you cannot work this out with your mother there is no reason, other than monetary, why you can't move out. If this is the only reasonable solution then the most cost effective solution is to find a room to rent in someone's house.
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Having sex with a family relative is completely wrong. Almost anywhere this would be considered incest which is a crime. If your mother is acting inappropriate towards you then you should inform an adult. What your mother is doing is wrong in so many ways. You are her SON, This is not right.
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If it makes you uncomfortable, tell her that. Is it bad to be sexually turned on by mom? No. Thats quite normal. Not everyones one looks sexy to begin with or has the kind of looks that appeal to the son so not all may be in your predicament but then they are likely drooling over one of their buddies moms. While ok to be turned on by her, it is not the same thing to actually have sex with ones mother. There are a very few people in the world who do practice having sex between family members. I do not know their situations, so I can not judge.
What I can say is that step dad is her husband and lover. If she were to have sex with another male would he be okay with that? Most guys do not like sharing their woman with another man let alone a son or stepson.
It is best you acknowledge what you see her doing. She seems to want to see if she is still attractive sexually to guys other than her husband, but to use her son to find out, is beyond me why.
I'd be careful about what you say. I would say something about being uncomfortable with her going to extra measures to dress sexy when dad is out of the house and to flaunt it in front of you. So yes, you are sexy and yes it affects you but no, you are not going to do anything sexually with someone who is related to you by blood and certainly not with a woman who is married or in a relationship with another man. Tell her you love her as a mom, not a possible lover and want to keep it that way. Even if you are curious and wonder what it would be like, and would be open to trying something, don't open that can of worms or you will have a terrible situation on your hands soon. Perhaps she is not completely satisfied sexual with step dad. If she married someone not her sexual equal, that was one mistake, she can end that relationship and try to find the right guy for herself. But to use you to take care of her unfulfilled needs is a 2nd mistake. It causes emotional, psychological problems for youto get into that. So you have to ask her nicely to stop changing her clothes just to get a reaction from you. YOu will often find in your life time, other situations where you find yourself turned on by some women whether she is baiting you or not like mom, and it will be inappropriate for many different reasons, you will have to learn how to exercise self control and not succumb to the attraction. If it was a married women and her husband found out, or the boss's wife and he found out..well you get the picture. If mom does not change her ways out of consideration for you.. i'd try to find a way to get a roommate and move out of the house. If not living there, she can't affect you.
Hopefully you can find some way to do that. If you are basically stuck living at home and in no position to move out yet, think of some relative you could ask to go live with. Otherwise, if still stuck at home and mom progresses to the point of touching you in sexual ways, you have to ask her to stop that or you at that point have no other alternative but to speak to someone about it. Who that someone is, I must leave up to you, if you have a pastor or a counselor you could see, talking to your birth father if he's alive, telling another relative, aunt, uncle, or lastly your step dad. He may or may not believe you. It may cause trouble not just between him and you but him and mom. Basically lets hope you find a way to move out.
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