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i am so muchh damaged that i dont see a single point in living my life. i wanted to change .. but
i am so muchh damaged that i dont see a single point in living my life. i wanted to change .. but people around me never allow me to change.. i lost my right of opinion, i lost my right to cry.. everything i lost.. if i cry loudly.. they say " dont make me say anythin"..if i supress my sadness and madness they say "i know why you are behaving like this.. becoz u dont have the right ..." neither can i live nor can i change.. becoz according to them , i donot possess the right to change myself and live.. you see, they are not giving me a option other than death.. you think from my place... what u ll do?
daily living like this or a death?
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I wish I knew more about your situation. If you are still a child and living at home and there is bad stuff happening to you there let someone know...a teacher...a neighbor you can trust...call 911 if necessary...and don't back down out of fear...let someone know you are being abused. You do have the right to change and be happy! So many people have been where you've been...gotten out and then live a happy life. There is so much hope ahead for you. Please reach out and get the help you need. It doesn't matter what you've done because it was force upon you...it's not your fault. You deserve a chance to be happy and fulfilled in life. Reach out and take it!
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You don't have to keep living like this. There is always another solution.
I think you should look at these. They helped me somewhat, and I think they will help you too:
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I understand that you feel as if you have no one to talk to. I recommend that you call a suicide hotline.
You can email me any time if you want someone to talk with. My email is athena4896@gmail.com.
You might feel like there is no more hope in this world, but hold on to the hope that things will get better. You can get help from a therapist, psychiatrist, or hospital. I just got back from the hospital a couple days ago, and I highly recommend that you find a way to go to one. It helped me more than I thought was possible.
If you feel like no one loves you, let me remind you that there is always someone who cares about you even if you don't know it.
I think you should find something to do that you enjoy. I recommend doing exercise because it really helps relieve stress. Meditation and yoga are the same way.
I really enjoy writing, art, and music. Depending on who you are, that kind of thing might help you, too. But look around to see what interests you and makes you feel better.
Please stay strong and find a way to enjoy life again. Remember that many other people have gone through this exact same thing -- including me -- but they were able to get help and then keep living.
Don't give up. I believe in you.
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We could offer you more help if you gave us more than; they say this and they say they that. You say you are damaged. I really do not know what to make of that for you have not explained why you feel this way. Tell me why you feel you are damaged and maybe I can help you fix yourself.
What I will tell you is this. Death is not the answer it is a wrong solution to a problem. For every problem there is a solution if you will allow others to help you find the solution. We may not have a solution for you though one of us will know where you can go to get the proper advice to correct your problem.
Besides needing to know why you feel your damaged. We need to know your age and any medical problem you may have. It would also be nice to know where you live if not in the USA.
What we need to know is the reason people say these things to you. For behind that reasons lies the ability to offer suggestions on how to fix the problem. No one can keep you from changing but yourself. IF you want to change no one can stop you.
So write back to me in a private letter or write back to us in the open forum with more information and lets see if we cannot come up with a better solution for you.
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