My boyfriend and I are in high school and we've dated for 8 months before but I'm confused on how he feels about me. Last Sunday night, his sister got us back together and she told me he never really talked about any other girl the way he does me and one of my friends said he gives me the "I love u look" which I have no idea what they're talking about but I've noticed every time I catch him staring at me, his eyes smile and he looks deeply into mine. Also his friends tell me I'm all he talks about, how he misses me, stuff I say, etc. I've asked him how he feels about me but he kind of shys away from the question and won't answer me. I'll be honest with you, I get bullied on at school and he sometimes takes up for me. When my friends try to steal me from him he always grabs me and he won't let my friends take me, lol. Plus..hes always gotten me the best gifts..and his card said "i made a wish and you came true." Now that I think about, last year he invited me to this music show his sister(the one that got us back together) was singing at and I had to use the little girls room but when we got in there she told me how she doesn't want to c her little brothers heart broken and she told me that the first time he saw me he asked her if I came from above. I just don't know how he really feels about me...I'd rather hear all this from him. Why wouldn't he tell me all this?? How does he feel about me?
Since you've already tried talking to him and he didn't give you a response, try writing him a note. He obviously has feelings for you if you guys are dating. No guy just dates a girl who he isn't interested in. But if you want him to tell you how he feels, you can't force him. Just write him a note telling him that you really like him and he hasn't told you that and you were wondering if he really does. Or something along those lines. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Gauri answered Saturday October 26 2013, 2:19 pm: Hi, first I would like to apologise because of my bad English. I hope you'll understand :)
According to what you've written in your post I see that both of you are still very young. Boys at teenage years sometimes act very shy and strange. It is because they don't have enough selfcomfidance to say what they really mean.
I'm pretty sure that your bf loves you, but still don't have enough courage to tell you that.
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