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am i right or wrong? She is dating two men at once... for YEARS!
Hello, i am a 34 year old male, i been dating a female for three years, and recently i found out shes been dating someone else and shes been dating him for five years even b 4 she met me, and she's been accepting gifts from both of us... pretty much feeding us the same lies, so her birthday is this Friday, and i was going to do something special for her; give her nice gifts, had a luxury hotel lined up for her this weekend. But now since i found this out, im not doing anything for her... i dont even plan to wish her a happy bday, because i dont think she even deserve hat small gesture... but the nice side of me questions if im wrong or not, and i cant answer that because im really angry right now.... so what do you guys think? Do you think i would be wrong for not saying happy birthday?
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Define wrong,
This woman has lied numerous times, She cheated and wasted your time for 5 years. No, I don't think it's wrong at all to not wish her a happy birthday.
Seeing I seem to be in a real blunt mood tonight I'm going to give you a fair share of the beans.
This woman is a cantankerous bitch who seems to enjoy being a gold digger to fulfill her dreams of being pampered with gifts.
You owe her nothing, Notta, Not a damn thing.
You should dump her, end it and cut all 100% contact. Do not answer text, calls or emails.
Her behavior was immoral and disgusting, She has wasted 5 years of your time lying and cheating on you while you could of found happiness with someone who loves and appreciates you for who you are and not your gifts.
Let her go, Let karma come and bite her in the ass. You move on with your life and find someone who is suitable for you.
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I don't think this is really about the birthday.
You're not happy that she is dating someone else, so you end things. I don't think she'll be offended that you didn't say happy birthday knowing that you know about the other man. So I just think you should break things off and move on.
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If you've discovered that you aren't happy in this relationship, for whatever reason, then end it, and dump her.
The upcoming birthday isn't the problem. Either you want to keep on dating her, or you don't. If you don't, dump her.
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