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annoyed with Taylor Swift and her nasty dating
recently since Taylor Swift entered the music scene she started dating everybody she met from Joe Jonas John Mayer Taylor Lautner Harry Styles and ect and she dumped every single of them only to have something to write about and everybody praises her for it except me and im glad i wont be dating Taylor Swift anytime so will she ever stop dating and not start again till shes fully grown
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I honestly don't think there is something wrong with her. I mean, she's young, she's not that mature to understand who is right for her so she is trying to figure out it. Yes, she is a celebrity which means she is under microscope but she is also a young girl. Plus I love her for this song [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) It helped me a lot to break up with my ex and it gives me courage not to get back to a very abusive relationship
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I don't understand why you're on here. What are you asking advice for?
A lot of people get annoyed at things celebrities do. But who really cares? Taylor Swift is a grown adult and can do whatever she feels like and truly doesn't care about what people think so I don't know why it really gets to people like this.
It's not uncommon for women to date a lot. It's really not. People just get worked up about it because she turns her feelings into songs. Which in my opinion is pretty cool, but since people find out who the song is about, they flip out.
So I don't know what you wanted out of posting this but my advice to you would be to not get so annoyed over a celebrity and what she chooses to do with her life.
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I don't know Taylor Swift either. But whether a celeb or ordinary folk, there are people who jump from relationship to relationship not spending much time in each before breaking up and its for a reason.
While I can't say this applies to everyone, it will apply to oh Im guessing a quarter to a 1/3 of the people out there.
Its something called New Relationship energy. NRE is an extra strong awareness of the other, the overwhelming excitement at getting romantic attention from someone new, all feelings at this stage are blown way out of proportion to what they would normally be when it wears off. NRE wears off in a few weeks, a few months. Some can make it last a year if they don't see each other often. Both males and females can become addicted to NRE. It is an actual addiction, it comes closest to being described as something adrenaline junkies go for, like the trill in bungee jumping, sky diving, etc. That is an addiction too.
But with NRE, no one really talks about it so people aren't aware of its existance and so, unfortunately, many nice couples who are not addicted to NRE but feel it, assume that there is that spark or chemistry between them so they date, move in together, go for long term or marry, only to find out their interest in each other seems to disappear. It didn't disappear, it was never there in the first place. They were being carried along by NRE which isn't the real thing.
Think of a skateboard going down an incline. Without putting any effort into powering it yourself, the thing seems to have a power of its own as a car has an engine. But the momentum it has is really only due to gravity and the incline.
When you run out of incline, the skateboard will stop. Thats what happens to alot of people who end up together. Some still dont recognize anytime is wrong or blame it on job or stress when it may not be that at all and they force the relationship, staying together in a love-less marriage. And those are the people most likely to be attracted to having an affair on the side when they should have just split and gone after someone else.
For all we know, Taylor could be addicted to NRE, that or she's a shallow person.
I only tried to explain it to you because you yourself will experience it one day, maybe several times, and knowing about it ahead of time may help you not getting stuck with someone not right for you.
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I don't know Taylor Swift much, or her music.
But I do know she's 23. She is fully grown.
She might be vapid, or shallow, but she's an adult and she can date or not date whoever she pleases.
Lots of women live their lives as 'serial monogamous' daters - jumping quickly from one 'relationship' to the next. It's okay if you don't like it - don't be friends with those kinds of women! But it's not worth getting worked up over what other adults do with their love lives.
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