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real friendship or not
I had a friend I considered to be my best friend. But for my bday 30th she called an hr before some of us were going out to celebrate to tell me she wasn't going because she felt akward around my friends she didn't even know.. but she can go out with other friends with their friends no problem. And she also had a get together and invited other friends that ive hung out with but didnt invite me. We haven't talked since, and she is making it look like to others I was the bad guy. Over it? Wouldn't you be?
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I would for sure be very tired of it! Have you gone straight to her and asked her what her deal is? If not, that's what I recommend doing ASAP. You deserve answers & you deserve the truth from someone who is SUPPOSED to be your best friend!!
Her excuses sound quite lame to me, and sadly it may be that she's trying to distance herself for whatever reason. This is why I think trying to talk to her about it is the best thing! Hope this helps a bit!
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Sounds like a fairweather friend...as long as the situation and everything is to her liking and does something for her...she'll pretend to be your friend, otherwise she makes herself distant and not available.
I wouldn't consider anyone like her a great loss.
People who try to make someone look bad in the eyes of others is immature and needs to grow up. Those who would listen to and actually choose to believe are also immature and need to do some growing up.
It's high time to find yourself some friends at your maturity level. You are an adult. Time to hang out with some fun, mature and loving adults rather than adults who think they are still kids.
Its hard to make new friends but thats part of life. Someday in the future you'll be looking back at this time so glad that you moved on and never gave her another thought. Dont let your mind dwell on it. Good luck dear!
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She doesn't sound like a true friend, A real friend would suck it up for the sake of their friends. She blew you off, she's ignorant and only thinks of herself.
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Don't worry it happened to me in 6th grade. I know how you feel and it feels terrible. So I have an instagram and I did a "truth is" post and she liked it so i said something like "truth is you were really mean to me in gym and made everyone hate me and you were my only friend and it hurt me so bad." i had to tell her the truth. then about a minute later she read it and said "i admit to doing all of those things" so i just HAD to text her and say "WHY?!" she told me and the next weekend we hung out.
so ask her why and see if u can do anything but DON'T change yourself to be her or his friend! hope it helped! xoxo swimmers0love0food
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