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what does it mean if you ask a guy why he likes you and he says i dont know
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First I don;t know your age, could this be the first or second dating experience for either of you?
One of the things you both will learn over time is how to have good communication with each other. If not with him, then with someone else because communication and trust are crucial things to a healthy relationship.
So good for you for taking the initiative and asking him. Lots of girls write in who are too scared to ask. Does this guy talk much to anyone else. or is he always very quiet. He may be naturally shy and withdrawn and battling feeling self conscious so he is too timid to tell the truth.
When he says I dont know the answer really was, I dont want to say. There is an answer to that question even if the answer was "I just wanted to date a girl so I asked the one who I thought was most likely to say yes. I didnt have to be interested in her, I just wanted to experience dating....in which case there would not be anything he really likes about you. Its just the experience he was after. The object here is to find someone who does have a genuine interest and can tell you what it is. Without communication, you really don't have much chance at progressing very far. If it really bugs you, then ask him if it wasn't you he liked but that he just wanted the experience but don't get angry. People do things for all sorts of weird reasons. Once you know you dont actually interest him in any way you can tell him that since there really is no personal interest in you in any way, you are going to set your attention on other guys
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It could mean many things. My best guess would be that it's just plain black and white. He likes you but hasn't decided to pick out any specific reasons why. He doesn't feel the need to.
Or he just simply doesn't care and doesn't care to tell you what he likes about you or what draws him towards you.
I doubt he plainly doesn't know why he likes you. He has to, there is always a reason why someone likes someone else besides feelings. Like your personality, looks, interests, ect. If he can't find anything he likes about you, then he obviously doesn't care enough.
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Hi,
Firstly may I suggest to name your question differently in the future-because it makes it sound like a complicated question so puts people off answering.
I think that it means he may be shy around you-particularly as this is not a conversation that's been had before.
With guys its black or white-he either likes you or he doesn't. He said he did not know, not 'I don't'-so he does like you but maybe its not clear how you feel about him?
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