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How much does it hurt on a scale of 1-10?
So I'm a female and I am thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. I'm kind of shy and I can't really ask anyone I know but....on a scale from 1-10 how much does it hurt the first time? And what kind of hurt is it? If it's one of those questions that varies, then sorry for even asking, but I'm curious. Please and thank you!
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This is a question that varies. It really depends on the person. I've known some girls that didn't have any pain the first time they had sex, while I know others who have experienced pain.
I did have pain my first time. It was tolerable, but it wasn't very enjoyable.
But a lot of other things can change how much it hurts. When you're younger, you'll probably experience more pain because your body is still developing. Then of course, if your boyfriend doesn't do it right, then it will hurt a lot.
If he goes too fast or too rough, it will probably hurt you.
So honestly, if you're old enough and trust your boyfriend, then go for it. But if you're nervous or don't feel ready, then wait.
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I don't really get this question when it is asked...
I lost my virginity and experienced no pain at all. I don't even know why this question is so important to others as I feel it's sweating the small stuff.
What's important is that you are ready and you trust the person. Not who took your virginity and when.
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This is one of those question that the answer varies by several different factors. First each of us feel pain differently so even scaling it by the 1 to 10 scale what would be a pain of say 5 for one person may be a pain of 10 for you or 1 depending on how you feel pain.
Then their are the other factors to take into account. You're age is a very big factor in how much pain you feel. The younger you are the more it will hurt. You may have the body of a women but your body is still developing. If you cannot use tampons because it is painful to insert them or you cannot insert them. Then how do you expect a boys penis to get into your vagina.
Your vagina muscles are still maturing and need to learn how to expand to accept a penis. This will happen as you go through puberty. If you try to rush it you will end up with a very painful experience that might cause you to fear sex for quite sometime afterward.
The last factor is just how relaxed can you be. If you are not comfortable, if you do not feel secure from being discovered you will not be relaxed enough. You will be tense and that will add to the trouble in penetration and the pain you will feel.
If you Hyman is still intact, they can break for a variety of reasons without you even knowing. The tearing of them is just a sharp pain as the boy breaks through. It usually does not last. The pain of stretching, forcefully stretching your vagina is where the majority of your pain will come from and it will last as long as the boy tries to penetrate you or as long as he is in you if he is successful in penetrating you.
All a boy need to have sex is an erection, something that happens many times a day. For a girl she needs to be in love something the definition for boy is different from the girl. She needs to be comfortable and she needs to feel secure.
For the boy the back seat of a car in a secluded area is fine for him. It is not all that fine for the girl.
Many boys use the line; "If you love me you will have sex with me." Don't fall for that one as it is as old as time. Love to a guy is the same as lust. He needs to have sex in order to quench the raging hormones he has from puberty. Hence the word horny.
Sex is not something you do to prove your love for someone. Sex is the end result of a loving relationship. A relationship that hopefully will conclude in marriage.
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it hurts more to give birth i wish someone told me that and i could of keepted my v- card
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