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please help
I m weak and have been being called that for 20 years I can't take it I'm ready to leave this place nobody likes me I give people my last an I'm always the one being hurt I fuck hat myself
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You're not weak, You are likely sensitive and caring towards others feelings.
If you are referring to weak in terms of standing up for yourself, My friend In this word today we must stand up for ourselves to avoid being hurt. People sometimes take advantage of the ones who are too kind to others. I am not saying become an arrogant asshole. I am saying when it comes to defending yourself we need to learn to stand our ground.
Honestly, It really is a bit hard for me to relate to you. I am the opposite, I have no problem telling someone to fuck off when they have crossed the line. I can relate in terms that my husband is the same way as what I explained.
In life we learn who and who shouldn't be in our lives. We also grow to learn that after so much bullshit from people, We need to up the tolerance for others so we don't get crapped on again. It is a bit hard to give my best too you as there is no detail to what you mean by weak but my advice is to learn to stand up for yourself! Never let people walk on you.
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I don't have to know any personal details in order to know how to help you. You are not weak. Everything will get better with time, I promise. I have been there and I have contemplated things I shouldn't have. But I prayed and asked God to show me a sign. I opened my Bible to a random page and there it was, my sign. There was a verse right in front of my face that said that it wasn't my time yet and that God would take me when it is my time.
I don't know if you are religious, but that really helped me. Everything will work out.. I promise. Don't give up, just keep fighting.
You are strong and you are worth it.
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You don't give us much to go on to base any advice on.
Are you male or female? Explain what you mean by What do you do for work, or if just school, what study to become "Weak", such as having a weak willpower, or weaker muscles, any condition or disease which might contribute to a problem of mental weakness or physical weakness?
You say nobody likes you. So based on that, I am going to guess that it is not really some kind of weakness you have that is the issue here but something else.
Most humans do not find themselves attracted to people who have low self esteem. That is what I suspect may be going on but I could be wrong. So before I go into trying to give you some pointers, why dont you write a new help question and provide more information this time. Thank you.
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