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How do I get her to met me finger her... she already turned me down!
Im 13 years old and one of my friends has ben stuck in my head the past few weeks and i really want to finger her ive had sex dreams of us and one where shes fingering herself for me soo i really want to ive asked her once but she refused how can i get her to let me?
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I'm going to go easy on you. You're 13.
Girls are not there for your sexual gratification. If you're going nuts, think about the dream and masturbate.
You do not get someone to let you do something. You find someone who wants the same things you want. Who wants to touch you, to let you touch them.
The degree to which your attitude is unacceptable is pretty enormous. Guys who just use girls for sex are pieces of shit. Don't be that guy.
And yeah, that was in fact going easy on you.
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You can't make a girl want to do something sexual with you.
She turned you down, so let it go.
I'm assuming she's your age. Young girls hardly care about sex or anything sexual. They like boys, they want to feel loved, ect. They aren't obsessing over sex like you.
Your hormones are going crazy right now and that's why you have sex dreams of her. You're growing up, but you can't try to convince a girl who doesn't want that to do it with you.
If you keep asking her, it is sexual harassment. She can tell anyone and you can get in trouble so just leave it alone.
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05natalie05 has told you like it is. Once anyone tells someone NO to anything sexual; to continue to push that person to do so is sexual harassment. Even as a teenager sexual harassment is illegal. You can be in real trouble with the law for doing so if you continue push this girl to do so or sexually harass anyone the police can be contacted and you can ended up in front of a Juvenile Court Judge.
I will assume that the girl in your question is your age or younger. If so she is, as are you, way to young to be engaging in this type of sex play. I am not surprised she has turned you down. You are rushing to do something you are was to young and not mature enough to be doing.
I realize that your body is sending you signals that are telling you to do so. This is caused by the new hormones floating through you from puberty. There are better ways to handle these impulses then to force or push a girl to do something she is not ready to do yet. I would suggest you take matters of your own needs in your own hands for now. IF you need further explanation to what I have just stated write back to me.
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If a girl doesn't want to go anything sexual with you, then you can't make her.
Its normal for you to have sexual dreams as a teenager, but that doesn't mean you should be trying to get a girl to let you finger her.
If she said 'no' then she means 'no', not 'maybe later'. She means 'no'.
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