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I think I gave a bad blow job?
Okay, I'm 17 & the guy I've been seeing for almost 2 months is 18. We hang out for a little over the school week & then usually all day & night Friday and Saturday nights. Yesterday we hung out all day & then we went back to my house and we were laying in my bed & cuddling. We were spooning and I could tell he was already hard from that & we had talked about hooking up a few days before. We've obviously made out before but i haven't had the chance to really do anything to him because we're never in the right place for it. I decided to give him a blow job because I have my period and it's too early for sex.
He started kissing me and we were making out & it was getting pretty heated. He was really hard and at one point he was like ontop of me and humping me so I decided it was time to blow him.
Of course I've given head before, but I've never given him head and I was really nervous. My mom was downstairs and I was paranoid so I just went under the covers and blew him down there. It was really hot under there and it was hard to do a good job. I couldn't look up at him or see how he was reacting. He was breathing pretty heavily, but about halfway through started moving his hips around. Is that good or bad? I was feeling like I wasn't doing a good job after that. I had almost his whole penis in my mouth and I was also using my hand at the bottom and had pretty good rythm. He came and i swallowed all of it and when I came up, he was smiling and I was like sorry that sucked and he was like "no it was amazing" but didnt really convince me.
He kept smiling after and I was like why do you keep smiling and he said "nothing yu just make me so happy"
After that I was pretty confident that he liked it. He was snuggling me and tickling me. I jokingly asked him what his favorite part of the njght was. He said "to see your gorgeous smile" and then he was like "but you want me to say your blow job" and then said "it was good but you can do better" I was kind of offended. Was it good or not? Should I be embarassed if it sucked?
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I don't think he would say it was amazing or it was good if it sucked.
Honestly, if my boyfriend said that to me, yes, I'd be offended too but I would talk to him about it.
Even if it did suck, you shouldn't be embarrassed. He should be happy that you even did that for him.
Anyways, since he's only 18, I'm sure he hasn't had very much experience in this unless he's like a manwhore or something.
Don't over think it, if you wanted to know why he said that, then ask him.
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From what you write of how you went about it and how he reacted moving his hips and the fact they he climaxed. I would say you gave him a great blow job and have nothing to be embarrassed about.
Hopefully he will be half as good in giving you oral sex when you let him.
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For crying out loud, stop over thinking this.
You give him a blow job, he orgasms and the first thing you say is "Sorry."
Even if he thought it was AWESOME he might have just said "You can do better." in order to agree with you, and not question your judgement about how it was. Neither of you have a wealth of experience to draw from - both of you will be feeling pressure to do and say the 'right' things.
You know you were in a tough position and weren't able to do it exactly the way you'd like too. That's fine. Nothing to be embarrassed about.
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When people write in for advice, it is so easy for them to paint a picture for us they want us to see, not what really is. Somehow, I have the feeling that something is not on the level here. Be it your age, perhaps way younger, your previous experience, hiding under a blanket just in case mom walks in...hahaha thats a funny picture. And what was the plan to tell anyone what you were doing under the blanket. Oh Hi mom. We're doing research for a class paper about what its like to be a preschooler and we're pretending to play tent! Your title says I think I did a bad blow job and at the end you contradict yourself, I was pretty confident. Give me a break... it sounds more like you are trying your hand at writing soft porn.
If this is really on the level, and you really want to continue to have sex and have no clue how to, you might want to check with planned parenthood, get protection and ask them for referal for free sex counseling in your area.
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