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I tried to stop him from touching me, but I couldn't. What do I do now?
Alright, so a few days ago I went to see a movie with a friend. I'm 14(female), and he's 17. As we were watching the movie, he put his hand over my mouth and started playing with my tits. I tried to stop him, but I couldn't. Well, he made his way to my pussy, and started fingering me. It actually really hurt, and I think he broke my hymen. My pussy kind of hurts, what do I do? Like, when he fingered me, he used two fingers, which I've only fingered myself once, but I used one finger. It's not like I can tell my mom or dad.
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That was a form of rape. Go to the police ASAP.
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This is sexual assault, and akin to rape. I understand it is embarrassing, but HE was in the wrong and not you. You should ABSOLUTELY tell your parents, and then you should tell the authorities and press charges. The fact that he covered your mouth first shows that he KNEW you wouldn't want him to do it.
If you don't do something about this now, you will wish for the rest of your life that you had. Don't let this jerk get away with abusing you or anyone else. Tell your parents. You will NOT get in trouble... HE will get in trouble.
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She will NOT think it was your fault. Be sure to explain how he covered your mouth and how you tried to stop him. If by some chance your mom really is a jerk (she would have to be a total jerk to blame it on you), then try telling your dad instead. Parents want to protect their children, unless they are bad parents, they WILL want to help you with this.
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Why can't you tell your mom or dad? You were sexually attacked! They would want to know about this so that they can help you deal with it and make sure that you're okay. Don't ever call this person your friend again. He did the worst possible thing that a person can do to another person to you. You did absolutely nothing wrong and you should definitely report him. Don't just let this go. He'll do it again to someone else. What he did to you changed your life and it's not fair. You need to make sure you're okay. You may feel okay now, but reporting this and sending him the message that what he did is not okay to do to anyone ever is the best thing that you can do. They may even have proof of it at the movie theater if they had a security camera. You don't have to tell your parents, but you should definitely tell someone. It is never okay for a guy to overpower a girl like that and if you don't get him in trouble for it now, he could get worse and continue abusing women for the rest of his life. Good luck.
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You CAN tell your parents. You could also tell the police.
He held you down, and sexually assaulted you.
What he did was probably criminal, and definitely immoral.
You shouldn't feel ashamed that someone abused you, but if you don't tell anyone, the people who are suppose to protect you, can't. And no one can protect the next girl he asks to a movie ether.
This guy, who is older than you and stronger than you, forced himself on you, and used your body. You didn't do anything wrong - you were vicitimzed.
So, he's not your friend. Stay away from him.
And please tell someone. Tell an adult you can trust, an aunt or uncle, a teacher or coach, someone you can speak too honestly. You need someone who loves you to support you, and to tell you to your face that you didn't do anything wrong -you were vicitimzed and sexually assaulted. You need to let the people who's job it is to help keep you safe, keep you safe.
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