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When will I ever get a boyfriend?
13/f
So I'm in 7th grade and I always see people kissing at my school. It makes me depressed, because I've never had a boyfriend and it makes me feel unwanted. I don't even know if I'll ever get one...
It's making me feel really bad about myself. Any advice? :(
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Well like everyone else said, you have so many years ahead of you to have a boyfriend. Plus, if you did start dating right now, it most likely won't last. You most likely won't know him when you get into high school.
Also, boys at 13, 14, and 15 are really, really immature. Like when you get older and look back, you're going to be glad you didn't date any of them when they were like that.
They're too caught up in sex, kissing, making out instead of an actual relationship. When you get older, relationships mean more than that. If they aren't, they're sitting around playing video games and don't even care to look at girls.
So, trust me, you will get a boyfriend in the right time. Just enjoy being young and not have to worry about having a boyfriend. They can also be a lot of drama and you're young sooo enjoy yourself.
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Hun, I never had a bf until I was 18 and I'm not ashamed. I know what it feels like to see people around you, happy and in love, and you want that feeling too. My advice, hang in there and continue to focus on school and making friends. You are not unwanted. You are only in middle school. When you're 18-19, you won't even know 90% of those people anymore. So please don't be worried, look for the best that life has to offer and be happy. Love will come. Love comes to people when they least expect it and when they're at peace with themselves:)
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Look for friends miss 13, not "boy" friends. Learn how to act and behave around both sexes. Find friends and in these friend, you will find yourself and your future. This life is a grand search for like, love and brilliant friendships. Don't miss it in regrets, get out there and explore, you will find what you want. Be well dear one.
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heyy youre only 13 you still got years and years of dating guys youre still young i wasnt even asked out until i was 12 so just keep your head held high and a wonderful will ask you out soon
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Hang in there sister! I know where you're coming from but dont worry. You will find the right and greatest guy and all these years of singleville wont matter. Just dont ever get desperate. You're better than that. But btw girls who are making out at this age are A.) Just trying to grow up and be cool or B.) Hoes. and also be confident! Boys dont want the girl who always mopes around and cries out for a boyfriend they want that confident girl who knows what shes doing! So you got it:)
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