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Boy trouble! I missed my chance?
Hello there. Well there is this boy that I have known for a long time because we played at the same fields. I found he was in 5 of my 7 periods so we talked a lot and we got along really well. Then we began talking more and we got really close. He told me he liked me but I didnt feel the same way but we carried on. Then I liked him and he still liked me but the thing is on the inside we are a perfect match but on the outside I just didnt find him attractive. So I wanted to wait for him to mature or idk but we stayed friends. And still ready close. Well we know this girl and he started talking to me about liking her but she never liked him. Anywho they became valentines and it didnt bother me because I was over him right? Like I dont even like him. But they posted this pitcture of them at a local carnival and as soon as I sawit all these feelings and memories came rushing to me. And for the first time I really liked him. And it wasnt that I liked him because hes taken its that I realized I missed my chance with someone who is perfect for me. And some girl swooped in and took the chance. And ive been thinking about what couldve been and how great we couldve been.. like i think im meant for him but Anyways its been on my mind 24/7 and I guess im wondering if I should tell him how I feel? Or what should I do in general? I dont want to corrupt their relationship but I need to do something so I can rest easy. Its killing me. But yes any advice on what to do would be really appreciated. Thank you so much!
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Well, it's hard to answer this but I think you suddenly became interested because he found someone else that wasn't you anymore.
I think you enjoyed the attention of a guy who was crazy about you but you just didn't seem him like that because you didn't find him attractive.
You guys probably clicked really well and that's how you both stayed friends.
I'm not trying to be offensive or anything because I've been one of the girls who have done this before and plenty others.
It's just, if you really think you might have real feelings for him, just wait. Don't get in the way of his new relationship because when you do get him, the feelings might go away because it's not a chase anymore, if that makes sense.
Maybe just go out and enjoy yourself with other friends and maybe find interest in another guy? It'll help get your mind off them.
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It's hard for me to even see this question as real, but I'm going to answer it as if it is. I have a real problem seeing you as a girl. You have based a best friend relationship on how much he turns you on. I thought only us "Boys" did that. So I'm going to tell you what you don't want to hear, LEAVE THIS BOY ALONE. You need to find out what you really want and you won't be able to until you stop being a tease. Your playing this guy, but you don't want to limit your options, so you want to keep him in a corner like a dog, so when you need him you can call him out of his corner. Girls are suppose to be more mature then guys, but I'm not seeing it in you. If your meant to be together, it will happen, but not because you make it happen out of jealousy. You will lose a best friend at the least and possibly a sole mate. Be well Dear one.
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