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Do you think my English teacher is trying to attract attention from boys?
In high school,I have this attractive, 30 or maybe a bit younger something English teacher who wears dresses,skirts and heels and she always crosses her legs nicely when she sits down. She also seems to want to chat more with her male students. Is she trying to be flirty and get the attention of her male students?
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Much better and safer to assume not. If the lads compete for her attention because she's a looker, naturally she'll spend more time responding to them. It's her job to interact with students. The girls may cold-shoulder her a little, they won't be blind to the male attention and general 'atmosphere' when she's around and could easily feel a bit overlooked and little envious. And so less likely to court her attention. The wish might be father to the thought here I reckon. Still, you can enjoy looking. I fancied my (English, coincidentally!) teacher like mad. She definitely knew, and handled it with brilliant tact and a great sense of humour. Awkward and embarrassing situations are probably a more likely outcome, so I'd let this one go. It doesn't sound like she's got to flirt anyway, she's already got the attention...
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While I agree with the other advisers I also have to advice that in this day in age you can take anything for granted.
It may be that the boys are more interested in her because the are infatuated with the way she dress and her sex appeal. Not uncommon among high school boys.
If you have any reason to believe it is more than just an infatuation by the boys with a very good looking and maybe sexy looking teacher than you should report this to the principal.
You didn't mention what subject she teaches but lets say it is one of those subjects where it might be hard to keep a young boys attention on the subject. By dressing as she does she at least she keeps the boys attention on her an hopefully some of what she is teaching also sinks in if only to impress her.
Please make sure of your facts before you report her for anything you think is inappropriate going on between her and any boy. Where I live we seem to be have a rash of incidents of sexual misconduct between teachers and students of both sexes. Just the inclination of misconduct could cause her to loose her job and ruin her career for life.
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Very, very likely not.
Just because a teacher takes care with her appearance doesn't mean that she's trying to lure in her students. That kind of misstep could cost a teacher her job, so she's not likely to even think in that direction.
As Razhie said, women in their 20s-30s are generally not attracted to teenage boys. As a woman in this age group, I can tell you that I wonder how I ever found teenage boys attractive: at this point in my life, I find them kind of gross (no offense).
I think you're looking for signs where there aren't any. Everyone has a teacher at some point in their lives that they find attractive. You'll get over this eventually.
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We aren't mind readers, but I highly doubt it.
Your evidence is that she dresses well, and that she crosses her legs the way you have to cross your legs when you wear skirts and dresses. Oh, and she chats with her male students.
Not exactly convincing.
Most people aren't going to risk their jobs (and possibly go to jail) over flirting with their students.
Also, most women in their 20s aren't going to be the least bit attracted to teenage boys.
You might wish she was interested. The other males in her class might approach her or chat with her more than usual because they wish she was interested. She most likely isn't.
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