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I am 11 and still sleep with my mom
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You should be sleeping in your own room. You are 11 and going through changes. Sleeping with Mum at age 11 is not appropriate.
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remember change is ok.try not to if it bothers you.itll be ajward when ur v15
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Unless there is a reason such as living in a one bedroom apartment there is no reason someone your age should still be sleeping in her mothers bed.
By all rights you should have had your own bed and bedroom long before your first birthday. You should talk to your mother and if there is another room that can be used as a bedroom for you then you need to insist that she make that your room.
A young girl need her own space so she can have the privacy needed to grow into a young women and do all the things young women do in the privacy of their own bedroom. Things like keeping a diary, putting posters on the wall, experimenting with clothes, hairstyle and makeup and I'm sure many other things as I guy I am not aware of.
If mom refuses to give you your own room then you must talk to a trusted teacher or your school principal about this as this is very wrong. One you inform your teacher or principal they have procedures to follow to have someone look into this and find out why mom refuses and they can force mom to provide you with your own room.
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You never mentioned why you are sleeping with your mom. Is it space issues or something different? All I can say is that at 11-years-old with changing bodies and age that you need privacy for one thing, your own bed for another and not to sleep with her any longer. It was fine when little but certainly not right now. Talk to her about it and move to your own bed as it's not right.
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