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my friend still acts like she did when we firat met
im a 13 year old girl me and my best friend have been bffs since 4th grade and she knows that i say stupid things without thinking like alot but she still gets really mad like i kissed her boyfriend pissed off at me when it has happened so many times before she sohuld know that i dont mean it why is she still getting mad after all these years
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Well it mightve been cute in 4th grade, but as your getting older shes probably starting to realize that its not cool anymore and she doesnt want you to do it anymore. If she gets mad about it now, instead of questioning why she's getting mad all of a sudden , you should be considering her feelings and not do it anymore. You shouldnt kiss your friends boyfriend anyway, thats just messed up, even if its a joke. And with saying stupid stuff, just think before you say it or talk to her about it and let her know youre just joking and if she still doesnt like it then just try to stop.
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Maybe you should try not to say stupid things and kiss other people's boyfriends?
That's the kind of shit that pisses people off.
They don't get over it - They get tired of it.
And when they get tired of it, they'll probably stop being your friend.
"This is just the way I am" is not excuse for being selfish or cruel. If you value her friendship maybe it's time to work on being a more respectful and kind friend to her.
She doesn't owe it to you to be friends with you if you are treating her poorly.
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She gets upset because her boyfriend is her boyfriend and she wants you to KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF. What if you had a boyfriend and everytime you guys went out with your friends, he and your best friend would end up making out with eachother? Put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would feel if that was you.
I think that your friend gets upset because her boyfriend is supposed to belong to her. I may be a guy but I'm sure that girls don't share their boyfriends. So the next time you get the urge to kiss him, DON'T DO IT! HE IS NOT YOURS. If you want someone to kiss go get your own boyfriend.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: If your best friend's boyfriend keeps letting you kiss him, then your friend should be a little suspicious. I'm just saying.
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Because she doesn't like it maybe? Because you continue to do it when you know it upsets her, shows a great deal of disrespect for your friend.
If you know you do stupid things that you don't mean...Its time to stop it. Its not a good excuse.
The older you get the more people won't accept that kind of behavior. Start working on it today.
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