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I'm not sure what he is trying to say
So there is this guy that was in my college math class. He was very quiet but I thought he was the most gorgeous guy I have ever laid my eyes on. Now he told my friend he was single so I decided to just go rite up to him and give him my number because I would have felt really bad if I didn't even try to communicate with him. Anyways he texted me later on that same night I gave him my number. And we got to talking then I told him to tell me some things about himself he felt comfortable sharing and the one thing hat kind of got to me was that he said "I am in a long distance relationship but shit happens" and when I complemented him he told me thank you and"at least you see that" then asked me to go somewhere with him the following weekend. He keeps flirting when we talk what is he trying to say?
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What you said makes it seem that him and his girlfriend are in a bad place and it seems like she takes him for granted and hes finally realizing that. I think maybe you should talk to him about it, not only for your benefit but his as week, it seems like he needs to talk about things and vent his feelings to someone.
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Kaaitlyn
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There could be a few things going on. He told your friend he was single but then told you he's in a long distance relationship that is obviously not going well.
If he is in any sort of relationship, I'd back off until he end things with his girlfriend.
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Basically wants you to play his rebound encase his long distant relationship fails. Despite it being long distance or not he wis willing to try and cheat and leave his long distant girlfriend hanging in the air. Doesn't sound like someone I would want to date...
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He's saying he has some sort of an agreement with another woman, but is willing to carry on with you anyways.
I understand that you like him, and that his long distance relationship appears to be going badly, but despite that, he's being asshole who is basically asking you to play the other women to his long distance girl.
Hang out with him if you like him, but I'd strongly advise you to remain 'just friends' until he figures his shit out. He's playing with fire, hinting at feeling unappreciated by some other girl, enjoying your attention, and showing signs of being willing to decieve her. Not only do you risk being just the girl who distracts him and flatters him, but not a girl he takes seriously, but these things should also be ringing some alarms bells of the 'not a nice guy' variety, or at least 'guy who needs to get his shit together' before he's capable of being in an honest relationship.
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