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Where can I go to meet guys that ARE NOT pervs?
i like in chicago illinois & i was wondering where i can go to meet guys... that AREN'T pervs
im a senior in high school (17, female)
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I usually get this type of question from young people going off to college wanting to know how the best way to meet new people and to make new friends. I believe my standard answer to them will work just as well for your question.
Sit down with a pen and paper and make a list of all the things you like to do. They would include things such as movies, bowling, skating (both types) skiing, Hiking, camping, cooking, fishing, photography. Anything that you get personal enjoyment from. Then look for clubs or outings that have or are geared to these activities. Visit these cubs to see if you wish to join or take part in some of these activities. You should find some guys there that are interested in these things.
While it is true that all young men your age are mostly interested in scoring sex. When you meet someone and have something in common other than just sex appeal then you have something else to share. So a common interest such as a hobby or other interest gives you a foundation upon which to get to know someone before you start dating them. This takes some pressure off both of you sexually.
I can't say the guy won't try to hit on you. Though there is a better chance he will get to know you before he does.
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I can tell you where to NOT meet guys...
Zero Gravity. Ick.
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Most guys your age all have sex on their mind. I suggest not looking for older men, because they will want to take advantage of a younger girl like you. It might seem like every boy just wants sex but there are a few out there that are good, you just have to look. Don't go looking for boys at parties and bars and places like that because good guys will not be there! Look for boys at coffee shops and the park and library.
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Well online dating is a great place to start, cafes, and diners or school.
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