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My friend knows my other friends
I have a friend and we have been friends for a long time (like since we were in kindergarten). Well she is really nice and stuff but lately I feel like she's been talkin to my friends to much. First she started talkin to my other best friend and I was kwl wit it at first but then it got annoying. Then she stopped txting her so much and she exchanged numbers on instagram with my friend when I gave her a ShoutOut. Now she's talkin to on of my preschool guy friends that we had had a little misunderstanding with (lets just say I got dared to ask him out and he took it a "little" to seriously), and now she talking to him too. I told her that I didn't like how she does that but she never want to talk about our problems when ever we have one. I don't know what to do but I need to do something really soon.
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I'm confused... what's the problem with your friend making other friends? I get the fact that they happen to be people you know but sometimes that happens. Have you ever been friends with someone she was friends with first? Did she bitch when you did? If not, you shouldn't be doing it to her. It's not being a good friend, and it's just plain old possessive.
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You don't own her. This is not a "two of you" problem - its YOUR problem, and you need to fix it, or stop being her friend.
She can talk to other people, and make friends if she likes. People you happen to have met first are not off limits to her.
If you want to spend time with her, call her up and ask her to hang out. If you don't want to be her friend, don't be.
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Soooooo.... You want her to talk to only you? That's not quite fair, now is it? You have all these friends and she can't be friends with them too?
You need to really read what you wrote. Really listen to yourself. You sound pretty selfish, here.
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