Am 21 female with no kids but full of sorrow I was good at school I passed my matric in 2010 with examtions that is where the disaster begin I applied to more than three universities and bursaries but the all failed my mom toke me to college. After my first semester she lost her job I had to drop out try to apply for learship and so but nothing happened until I got a job at a callcenter we're they pay me peanut but I work as a slave it been a year now. I cnt continue with my studies coz am the bread winner I never saw my self ending where I am no career bad job I failed before I even get half way and that pains me every night I cry to myself feel better buy nothing happens sometimes I want to die. I dnt know why I feel great pain
First, things are not as bad as they seem. You are still very young so there is plenty of time to return to college. One of my best friends, who ended up in a situation very similar to yours, went back to school a few years ago. He already has his bachelor degree and is due to get his masters next year... at the age of 41.
Now, I am not saying you should wait that long. All I am saying is that you can take your time planning how to get your life in order. The key is not to become complacent. Figure out what it will take to change things in your life and then work towards that goal bit by bit.
Now the second thing I wanted to mention is the possibility of getting your degree online. I am not familiar with specific programs and I know there are a lot of fake ones out there, but to my understanding reputable institutions are now offering online courses and diplomas. I realise you said you were being worked very hard but it may still be an option to consider.
prettyinpink16 answered Saturday December 29 2012, 12:05 am: it's because you are not following your passion.. you can not just work for money, that will make everyone depressed eventually. find out what you love to do, then try and make a living out of that.. in the mean time, just get a part time job that will let you live fairly comfortable or apply for help from the government or ask friends/relatives. there's lots of help out there, go and seek it! [ prettyinpink16's advice column | Ask prettyinpink16 A Question ]
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