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past is haunting my husband
we got together when i was 15(yes 15,we were together for 3 yrs,got married and divorced after 9mths.stayed divorced for 18 mths,i did my thing,he did his,but he always wanted me back it was me that said no,i did terrible things but he accepted it and now 15 yrs later hes bringing it up,& i dont remember alot of the things that happened back then,& he keeps insisting i just dont want to tell him.plz give me some advice
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oh jees, why is he bringing up something that is so deep in your past? seems like there is some hidden anger or emotions that have been unresolved for a very long time.. he has been very generous with you though, it seems. so try and send him the love back.. let him express why he feels hurt and angry and try and explain to him why you did the things you did and let him know that you appreciate him for putting up with you through all those hard times! sounds like a great guy, he just needs a little emotional support from his lovely wife!
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One thing I disagree with Karen is it was not sudden curiosity. If he has bought up something 15 years later then it has always been in the back of his mind. Clearly he does not trust you and may never let it go. Time to move on and find someone who is living in the NOW not 15 years ago.
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Tell him you don't remember. It was a long time ago and it no longer matters. Why the sudden curiosity?
I'd be asking him that. If it were me, I would say either trust me or hit the road because he is basically calling you a liar.
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