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Stuck in d PAST !!
Well okay.. i was dating this guy 4 over a year. V belonged 2 different religions 2 begin with.. and he had lots of other issues. I thought i was in love and i was blind 2 some extent.. But he was into me madly. When things weren't working I tried 2 ditch him which resulted in him cutting himself.. I met another guy.. fell actually in love and moved on.. But his mom died and i left him within 6 months of that mishap. Somewhere down i feel guilty as he is still no over me. Should I apologize ?? :(
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Apologize for what? You two are no longer together and if you are with someone else then you need to focus on your current relationship. You owe him nothing
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Apologize for what. To apologize means you have done something wrong. Have you done thing wrong? From what I'm reading I do not see that you have done anything wrong. To apologize at this time would be to give him some type of false hope that you two might get back together which I do not recommend based on what you have written.
If his mothers death has been recent then the polite thing to do is to send him a condolence card. You could if you want write something nice in the card about his mother saying something about how much you may have liked her. Other than that I would suggest you have no further contact with him and get on with your life and let him find his own way in life.
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It's your choice to whether apologise to him or otherwise but to me , even if you do , things will not change to the way they were . Still , you could give him comforting words regarding his mother's death . Bear in mind that you've actually made a choice to leave him for your happiness , and you've moved on and if your previous boyfriend truly loves you , he'll too be happy for you without interfering in your new tie with a better man . The only person who can change his attitude or himself is , him . No one else so don't burden your emotions with his inner turmoils . Again , like i said , you can still give him words of comfort and strength and eventually , he'll move on . He will , sooner or later . As for you , you did what you thought you needed to do , so don't worry too much and cherish the current relationship you have .
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His problem. Just move on. It doesn't matter how or when or for what reason a relationship ends. Someone won't be ready or the end & someone will be feeling guilty.
Don't apologize & don't have contact with him. He will never move on himself if you don't.
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