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how to show your still a virgin to the parents of the daughter.
Ok so I need advice Because the girl I'm talking to, her parents don't trust me cause they don't think I'm a virgin. But I am the reason the may say this is Because I'm 16 and I act very mature in front of her parts and not play around. I am a virgin also I just need to know how to show them I still am so that they will trust me with there daughter. And also I'm a guy and she is 14.
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There is no way a male can prove his virginity.
The biggest problem I see is the 2 year difference in your ages. This is where her parents have the trust issue. Numerically the difference between 14 and 16 is not a lot. Between the two of you the difference right now is great in their eyes. In 4 or 5 years this age difference will be meaningless.
At 16 they see you as older, more worldly and more mature than their daughter. Someone who could easily take advantage of her.
This is really not a question of your virginity but a question of trust. Trust is something you earn, it is not a given in all situations. Trust is a given when a police officer comes to your door because the officer is doing a sworn duty. The same person without the badge does not get the same instant trust and respect. It is respect for the office not the person. I hope you understand my example.
How you gain someones respect is by being respectful of them. Not knowing them I cannot give you any specific recommendations. I have a feeling from what you have written you know how to gain their respect. That you are a respectful young man who's interests in their daughter are honorable. This is what you need to show them.
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There is no way to proven your virginity.
The only way to gain thier trust, is to behave yourself: keep your plans, obey thier rules and respect them.
Trust is always earned slowly. Even if her parents are concerned about what they believe to be your sexual past, it is still far more important in the long run to be honest and trustworthy, than it is to be a virgin. So focus on proving yourself that way.
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