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I just want my world to end, but I don't know what I should do I need help!
I've been having a really hard time at school and I feel like my mom doesn't even love me anymore..I just want my world to end, but I don't know what I should do
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The problem with the world today is we all don't seem to have enough time to do the the things we want to which includes spending time with our kids. I'm positive your mom loves you she is just not showing it in a way you realize.
If mom is a single parent of if mom and dad both work outside the home then mom may not have the time to express her love for you in a manner you would like. It happens more often than you know and your definitely not alone in your feeling this way.
I wish I could explain it better but I cannot. I think we would all like to have the story book life with the little house with the picket fence. Where dad goes off to work in the morning and mom stays home and makes breakfast, packs our lunches gets off to school and is there when you get home with milk and cookies. When dad gets home everyone sits down at the table for a dinner mom spent all day cooking.
At one time this is what life was like, not all that long ago. Today we all have busy schedules. Moms have careers or need to work to help support the family. Children have many after school activities because they can no longer play sandlot games without getting in trouble. Everything a child does these days has to be supervised.
What I would like you to do is when school opens next week is to talk to a trusted teach. Not only about any problems at school. Which would include school work and any teasing or bullying but any problems at home. If not a teacher than your school principal. If there is a problem at home they or at school they will solve it or help you get it resolved.
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I understand and I can relate to you having trouble in school. I just want to let you know that no one has the right or the power to make you feel inferior. DON'T GIVE BULLIES POWER OVER YOU. What happens if you kill yourself? If you have a problem with bullies at school or with certain people, then you won't find the answer you're looking for in death. You have to start from WITHIN. NOBODY CAN HURT YOU as long as you feel good about YOURSELF. What people say doesn't matter.
The things people say will hurt very much. But in the end, as long as you know God loves you and you still love yourself, nothing shall prosper against you. I really hope that you are a Christian so that way you know how much God loves you. And if you aren't a Christian, just know that there's always somebody in your corner who is willing to FIGHT FOR YOU no matter what. All you have to do is believe in him.
I didn't come here to preach. I just wanted you to know that your life means alot to alot of people. You have a chance to live and be somebody in this world. You could CHANGE lives. But if you kill yourself, you deny all of those people the chance to know who you are. DON'T GIVE UP ON LIFE and everything will work out for your good.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Hey,
School can be extremely tough, trust me, I know this. It's awful, it feels like a roller coaster and when it used to get really rough for me, I just felt drained, exhausted and almost wanting to give up. The pressure of everything is the worst. It must be how you feel right? But let me tell you this, school is like not even 10% percent of your life. School is just a small, tiny little period of your life. In the future you'll be doing different things, meeting new people, experiencing a lot of stuff, and having a career, a family etc. Don't let this tiny part of your life, affect the rest of it. Your life is such a blessing, and school is what I like to call, just a "moment" of it. Take everyday and everything step by step, and more importantly, take care of yourself. If it's the work load of your subjects you're struggling with, take it task by task. Do the work that is more important to you, complete that, then proceed on to the next. If it's anything to do with friends, it's just a part of a life, friends come and go but it's important to always be the bigger person, and remember to always make an effort with people. Sometimes it's just better to step back and do what you feel is gonna be good for you. And as for your Mom, have you tried speaking to her about it? I know you're probably thinking 'No way!' but it's worth a shot, it'd mean that you made an effort, and it can even give you reassurance. And it'll be good for you to get it off your chest and for her to know how you feel. You sound young, so let me tell you this; Enjoy every single moment, find a reason to smile in every situation, believe that tomorrow will be better than today.
If you need any more advice, contact cc.advice@hotmail.com (Any questions will be kept completely private)
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