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I'm in love with a man who doesn't even know I exist
Ok so I'm 25, I'm a female, and pretty much I'm in love with a guy that isn't aware of my existence at all...
We are both from different states,
I first spotted him on Myspace, to facebook, and even twitter...
I thought he was the cutest guy ever, but I'll never
approach a guy, so I just like watched him, from the way he interacts with his friends, I love looking at his pictures, and judging from them he has a sense of humor out of this world.
Like he's the most gorgeous man I've ever laid eyes on, I love the way he dress, he's swag is out of this world...
Not to mention he's a business man, has he's own website, highly out going
Ugh I could go on forever...
So here's this I know I might sound in over my head, but I'm just that hopeless romantic type girl, like I'm the chick who believes in soulmates...
And for some reason I can't get this guy outta my mind.
I want to say something, but I just can't work up the nerve...
I even planned to fly to his city to just see him in person, but even in person I will never have the nerve to even say anything...
I mean, I'm a pretty young lady, I always get approached by men...
But I just want him, or at least a shot...
I'm reaching out to strangers Cuz I could never tell any of my friends, even family this...
What do you think about my situation??
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Some of us have been around the block a few times, so we've learned to allow our brains to inform our hearts. So, with that said, why not start out small? The only way you're going to know if you have any future with this guy is to get to know him. Don't go flying to his city and drop in on him unexpectedly - there's a whole host of reasons why that's a bad idea at this point. DO find a way to introduce yourself (or have someone else introduce you) to him. Say "hi" to him on one of his accounts. Start talking to him online. He'll get to know you, and you'll get to know him in a more personal way. If that goes well, realize that both of you are internet personas to each other, and consequently there is a LOT you still won't know about each other, but you should know by this time whether you want to talk by phone and/or meet up in person.
In short, nothing can come of this unless you do something to make that happen. But, the things you do to make that happen need to be safe and smart.
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I terribly disagree with the other advice giver...
For future reference please be really selective in seeking out advice... because more and likely most people give advice based on their own perceptions
Like for instance, your story sound all make up and fairy tale to them... Something they would never do... so they'll give you the advice according to their own thoughts
I don't know your life story
I don't know what you've been through
Don't know why you like a man you don't know..
Never seen, or never met outside of a computer screen...
And maybe you're in over your head...
And maybe not, maybe it's an awesome adventure that you're willingly to take that may lead you to your destiny...
MAybe he want even like you, or maybe he will
Or just maybe through this quest you might really discover what's out there for you...
Or just maybe if you don't you'll always wonder what if,
But like I say, don't listen to no voice other than yourself,
And if you feel you need to make that trip then make up...
Be protective of yourself, find out a place he'll be at, bring some friends along with you, and just see how that would go...
And please know that we live in a world with endless opportunities, there is no such thing of "fantasy" if you want something bad enough just do it, and don't seek advice from a stranger who will discourage you and tell you you're a "stalker" No you
re just like me or any other girl who's ever had a crush
Live your live limitless, live wisely, and whatever you want to do do it,
Listen to your heart, it'll always speak the loudest.
The best of luck to you
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I think you need to get out into the real world and stop living in a fantasy one.
Seriously.
You do not know this man. He could be a character made up by someone. Saw that on TV just today. Even if he is a real person, he lives a life in another city with friends & people you don't even know. There is more to people than just what they look like, or how they sound like they might be online.
Do NOT fly to where he lives. That might be considered stalking. Get out and about in your own town with friends and find a real guy. Don't wsste any more precious hours on this guy who only lives in your computer.
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