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acting like a girlfriend
My boyfriend told me I dont act like a girlfriend.
How could I act like a girlfriend?
I am 16 years old
I am a female
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I'm abit confused-because he could be saying this because he wants you to get more intimate or because he likes that you're like one of his friends?
I'm guessing its the first one.
The thing is to be yourself, so carry on as you are.
The difference I guess about being a friend and then being a girlfriend is the intimate stuff-the previous advice said to be there for him, but if you're like most people (friends anyway) then I guess you already are?
It depends on what he means by acting like a girlfriend. If he means kissing etc then thats what you may want to work on. If he means doing cutsie stuff like he sees in the movies then forget it!
This guy seems to have preconcieved ideas how his girl should and shouldn't act, which suggests he may want the 'status' and the 'girl' bit but not the 'friend' bit.
Sure, give him hugs and buy nice things for each other, but don't feel pressured to be someone you're not. If he can't accept you for who you are then theres defo someone out there who will. Good luck :)
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Why don't you be there for him ? If he's sad , listen and comfort him . Appreciate him as much as he appreciates you unless he wants you to change in a bad way . When he's happy , be happy for him too . Be an eraser to his tears and be sweet hun . However , don't let him control you . Make sure that he doesn't suck your happiness out of you . Respect him and just be yourself in a positive way . If he can't accept you just the way you are although you've been treating him nicely all the time , then just keep on being yourself . You are special in your very own way . Good luck and apologise to him if you did something wrong to him :)
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