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My penis touched my girlfriends vagina and might have had pre cum on it.
I have been freaking out for the past 2 days, i even left school today because i was guna throw up becuase im scared shes pregnant, me and her where just messing around, i was masturbating her and then we wanted to know what if felt like, so i took my penis out and put it on her vagina, i did not put it in, not at all. just touched it. I may have had pre cum on my penis but not positive, we are both virgins, never had sex before nor have i ever put it in her. Shes on birth control for acne which im unsure if it prevents pregnancy, im pretty sure its the same stuff. Im only 16 and i cant handle a child in my life, nor can she. I think im just scaring my self and worrying about nothing but please tell me if im okay and that shes not pregnant, is she pregnant or not?! im really scared and have been feeling sick for the past few days. please help me ):
Please tell me if i should worry or not
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Very unlikely you will have knocked her up, especially if she is taking the birth control medication she has been prescribed properly and isn't forgetting to do so on occasion.
At this point, too, there isn't a whole lot you can do. So you might as well just relax and see if she has her next period or not.
Then you want to ask yourself what you learned from this drama you guys are putting yourselves through and how to prevent any sort of recurrence of said drama. Thus, anytime your penis gets near her vagina it should be sheathed in a condom, okay?
Remember, you always want to have yourself in a position where the maximum number of positive options are open to you. So anything that cancels options out, like her becoming pregnant, is to be either avoided or precautions taken to prevent it. In fact, anything you do should be with keeping yourself in the most flexible position so that you have autonomy over your life.
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Dear Exploration,
First off, what you are feeling is a very normal concern, especially considering you and your girlfriend and engaging in sexual exploration.
Your expressed concern reflects that you are acting like an adult and are trying to be mature about the situation. My colleagues below have given your terrific information about birth control and condom information.
There is never a 100% guarantee for anything, and it you are this concerned, have her go in or check up just to be safe. Pre-cum does have the potential to carry a small volume of semen and in most cases or pre-cum pregnancy is a result of a man already having ejaculated and there being semen left in the urethra. As you can imagine, if this was the case and the man engaged in intercourse right after, his pre-cum would in fact carry a higher volume of semen.
But like I said, have her get tested to put your mind at ease. Also, take this into consideration for future sexual endeavors. Always wear a condom to minimize the chances of an STD and pregnancy.
Hope this helps.
-CLE247
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First: Birth control medication is birth control regardless of why it is prescribed. Certain medications have other benefits than their primary benefit. In this case whatever the primary medication is in the birth control medication is to prevent pregnancy. It has an added benefit of controlling acne in women. Birth control medications are 99% effective in preventing pregnancy.
So stop worrying it is unlikely you made her pregnant for this reason and others. But let this be a lesson to you that your penis should never come near a girls vagina unless it has a condom on it. Regardless of whether or not she is on birth control. You do not want to be the unfortunate 1% that the birth control fails. wearing a condom reduces that 1% down to almost zero percent.
Besides this getting a girl pregnant is a lot more complicated then it seems. The sperm actually has to be inside her vagina, travel up through her reproductive system and meet with an egg that has been ejected from her ovaries and be fertilized.
This only happens for a very short time during her menstrual cycle. This time is called "Ovulation". Then the fertilized egg has to seat itself in her womb. All this has to happen in order for a women to become pregnant.
Seems simple enough that if two healthy people make love they can make a baby. Its not, if conditions are right 9 months later people are calling you mom and dad. So this is why we parents are always telling you to wait. Not to even fool around as you did. For if conditions are right and there are no birth control precautions taken you could be parents before your time.
Even if precautions are taken condoms alone are only 85% effective and as I said birth control pills are 99% effective. The two together are almost 100% effective.
I know you asked a simple question and I gave you more of an answer then you were looking for. I felt the information I provided was needed both to calm you down and to educate you as well. You have given yourself a good scare learn from it.
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It's pretty unlikely,honey. Some couples try like three or ten times in order to have a baby.And never achieve it.So settle down. Make her go to the lady's doctor if you're still in doubt. I highly recommend it. You're sixteen,but you're an adult already. Good luck!
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I am 99% positive that she is not pregnant. I would be veryyyyyy surprised if she was. I am on birth control and have lots of unprotected sex and have never gotten pregnant so don't worry about this at all. Just be careful and next time use a condom!
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