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yea just kinda sick of life
13 female cutter bullied and sick of life.what to do tried suicide twice and imtired of all the doctors phyc iatrists all the shit from people dont beleive in god so no heaven for me best option?i think so.How should i go?1st time slit wristssecond time slit wrists got into bath tooklots of painkillers
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Suicide it is definitely no the answer, and I have been bullied at your age, I have suffered a lot, don't hurt yourself, because when you do that you are giving the pleasure to the ones that hurt you, it's pretty much like spitting up in the air. What I did was to find to the last piece what makes me happy or what I'm good at, and as soon as I found it, I rolled all over it. I kept the fear in God during those ages to prevent me from going to that extreme of hurting myself, even though I cried myself to sleep every night. Since I found my creative side kept on pumping harder more and more as the years went by, I reached college and became a creative arts honor student, and let me tell you, I was the Cs and Ds student in High School and Middle school, and because I found myself I became the best. I hope the same luck for you, because of finding myself I grew confidence to ignore those little people that tried to hurt me and are going no where. REMEMBER! WHEN YOU FOUND WHAT YOU LIKE OR WANT TO DO OR TO BE IN LIFE...INVESTIGATE EVERYWAY POSSIBLE TO GET THERE, NOT MATTER HOW SILLY YOUR DREAM CAN BE.
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Please don't ever commit suicide or hurt yourself anymore man please don't . Listen to the advicenators who've advised you and take a moment to read what i am going to say . You're not sick of life .. you only gave up living it the best way you could . You , sweetie were born to this world for a purpose but you let yourself go without a concrete reason . You are the only who has the choice to do anything you want including changing your life to the better , that's why you have a heart . If there was a tragedy or anything bad or worse that happened to you , let them go . Look at you , you are now alive and be thankful for that , look at the people around you and the people living in this world who has a lot to suffer and take a lesson from the people who're suffering from cancer . They can even predict their time of death but their courage and faith made them stronger . I know that we're not even friends or whatsoever , but please don't commit suicide . If your heart tells you to do harmful things , don't even go closer to doing them , that is your pain in disease talking not your mind . You tried to suicide not once , but twice but you're still alive . There's a brightside and to me , it means you still have a mission in this life but by killing yourself , nah that's a way to nowhere . Don't ever think yourself as a worthless , pathetic sad girl don't think about all those things and let's say the people around you aren't even talking to you or anything , let them be because this is your life . You are a very young teenager and i believe that everyone has a goodness , although deep down a sad story is conquering he or she or , them . 13 is an age for you to pursue your dreams so that your teen years won't be wasted and it is the age for you to build , develop a concrete heart and mind . Millions of people are begging to have their life back , and some of them don't even have the choice to be happy anymore . Slaves of rape , incest , brutality and murdered just like that for no reason and i really don't want you or anyone to simply end your life . Stop thinking about the worst but instead think for the best of your life . You are still young hun and there are a lot of things which haven't come to you yet so don't let the time go ! You just haven't looked at the right place yet . Every second of your life is a chance to change everything , do remember that in just a blink of an eye , things can be transformed i can promise you that . From now on , look up . Stop looking down on yourself , you don't deserve such a treatment from your ownself . Stop thinking the bad things around you are extremely bad , instead have gratitude . Respect yourself and everyone and be nice , What goes around comes around and everything in this world happens for a reason . Otherwise , anything won't happen . Stop complaining and start breathing deeply and feel calm . Trust yourself and be brave , be very brave to stay independent and i know you can do it ! Life has its obstacles for you to overcome them and make you stronger ! You do have the ability to absolutely abolish all your heart-wrecking problems , just break them into smaller components and solve them one by one . Trust me , you can do it . Believe me . However , it all in the end depends on you alone to make a choice . Do you want to run yourself or let the world and desire of sins run you over ? Remember that you are the only one who can change nothing to something beautiful in your very own way of life :") Give a chance to yourself to continue the life you've been living .
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Please don't you ever commit suicide. I know you probably don't me, because I certainly don't know you. But let me influence you with how suicide conflicted with my life. I had a best friend, her name was Ryan. She came from a very hard Chinese family, and the worst part about it was she wasn't allowed to have certain friends. Everybody would joke and make fun of her because of her parents embarassing her everyday. Over the next year, she started to fail in classes because of her depressions, which later lead to her cutting and her seeing the therapist. I, on the otherhand, stood up for her, no matter if I couldn't be her friend or not. She wore jackets and pants, mostly always, to hide her scars or scabs from her cutting. At the end of my middle school year, she would mainly talk to me and her teachers. Then she moved, and I heard that she committed suicide. She was probably one of those people who you could say anything to, and they wouldn't judge you at all, no matter how embarassing or stupid. I believe, to this day, that I am her guardian angel. I think you just need to find yours, and if you don't have one, try talking to somebody you truly trust: a teacher, other adults, or your friend. Trust me, somebody, somewhere loves you. I hope this helps you:D
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I suppose some inspirational and ever-hopeful words would be a waste of time for a world-weary cynic like you eh? Heard something once, from the most cynical, chain-smoking, big-drinking, horse-racing, card-playing and totally un-godly man I ever knew.
My old mate DW. A little rhyme. I was beating myself-up about being, shall we say 'crossed in love' at the time. He said "Life's a bitch with it's twists and turns. As every one of us sometimes learns. But many a gambler's turned about...who might have won if he'd stuck it out." The old dog's got a point I reckon. So why not stick it out?? You're no loser if you get beat, you're only a loser if you quit. Don't press your luck with a third attempt!
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