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is there a way to NOT pop your cherry your first time?

Question Posted Tuesday August 28 2012, 1:00 am

I am a girl and I want to have sex for my first time. I am going to do it on Friday so please hurry! I want to have sex with this guy, but I'm afraid of the popping my cherry part. Is there any way that I can not pop my cherry when I do it? Thanks!:)

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Sunday October 14 2012, 4:06 pm:
Every girl is afraid or at least a little nervous to lose their virginity and have sex for the first time because of the pain factor, consequences that can occur and in general: the unknown. If you really don't feel comfortable with having sex with this guy, and it's not just nerves, don't do it. Wait. There's no harm in waiting and being 100% positive that this is what you want to do.. Nt some "in the heat of the moment" type of thing.
But t answer your question, unless only the tip if his penis enters you, and not his whole penis (which wouldn't be really considered sex, or at least not full blown sex) then it won't pop. However, your cherry will pop eventually from the sex, and depending on how long and big he is... Will result in how fast or slow it will take for it to pop. And this is assuming that your cherry hasn't been popped by using a tampon or horseback riding or something like that.
Good luck and be safe ! no glove, no love, xxo.

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HPB answered Tuesday August 28 2012, 1:21 pm:
dont do it

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asknava answered Tuesday August 28 2012, 1:15 pm:
Just because you have sex doesn't mean your cherry will get popped, but there is no way to KNOW for will either happen or it won't (if it hasn't happened already by some other activity: horseback riding, tampon, etc.)

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday August 28 2012, 11:28 am:
NO, once a penis enters a vagina your Chery, Hyman, will pop,tear, if it has not already been torn by some other activity. You will also no longer be a virgin as once a penis penetrates a vagina by definition virginity is lost.

Just for informational purposes a great deal of the pain, if there is pain, is caused by the penetration and not the tearing of the Hyman. The reasons are the stretching of the vagina to accommodate the penis, lack of lubrication and muscle clamping from the fear of pain.

I suggest before you take this step you explore the following website. I found this site and have recommended it to many young ladies like you who have written us who are thinking or planning to have sex for the first time. It is titled are you ready for sex and will answer many questions you may have.

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