is it advisable to have sex with another girl if your girlfriend is not ready and wants to stay a virging?
Question Posted Saturday August 11 2012, 4:46 am
is it advisable to have sex with another girl if your virgin girlfriend is not ready.
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Drewb13 answered Sunday August 12 2012, 12:11 am: You shouldn't be with the girl you're dating right now because you're looking for sex and she's looking for commitment. She doesn't want some guy who is going to who her hand during the day and then run off and have sex with some other girl at night. If you really LOVE your girlfriend, you'll treat her with the respect that she deserves. The fact that you're considering having sex with another girl means that you were only in this relationship for the sex. And think about the image you would be creating for yourself if you're dating a girl yet you're sleeping with everyone else. If you keep giving yourself out like that, your girlfriend will eventually find out and nobody will want you anymore because everybody has already had you.
What I'm trying to say is... Don't cheat on your girlfriend just because she has morals and values. Don't cheat on your girlfriend because she holds herself to high standards. Don't cheat on your girlfriend because she's making you prove yourself. If you really want to sleep around with other girls, by all means go ahead. BUT DO NOT DRAG YOUR GIRLFRIEND DOWN WITH YOU!
Xui answered Saturday August 11 2012, 1:11 pm: If you have a girlfriend then you should be committed to her and her only. Having sex with other people while in a relationship is cheating. It's dishonest, disrespectful and wrong.
If you are not happy with your girlfriend then show her the respect to tell her and end the relationship. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday August 11 2012, 9:17 am: You use the word "Girlfriend". That to me means you are in a committed relationship with this girl. When you are in a committed relationship you don't go looking for a f*ck buddy because the girl you are committed to is not ready for sex. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
VoiceofReason answered Saturday August 11 2012, 8:12 am: It depends on what the grounds of your relationship with the virgin girl are. If she is fine with an open relationship where either of you can do it with anyone else on a whim then go for it, as long as you utilize the usual precautions. But if not, you're going to have to just relax and wait for your virgin girl to finally get horny enough to want to do it. If you can't wait that long, then break it off with her and go find someone with a freer sexual attitude. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
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