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freshman in highschool, REALLY NERVOUS. :\
So, I start highschool this year. And I'm nervous.
I am kind of shy right now, and I really want to meet the -RIGHT- Guy..
And tips?
I want to become one of those obnoxious girls that get along with anyone. But I'm scared of looking/feeling dumb.
And suggestions on what I should do?
Or any freshman stories to share?
Just need to calm the nerves..
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As cheesy as this sounds everyone is nervous. Dont worry though! You'll meet great new people and adapt. Try joining after school activities to meet new people. Also dont expect to meet "the perfect guy" right away. Watch out because some guys,especially the older guys will just want to use girls. Just be yourself and youll meet a great gut eventually. Also dont change! You'll see plenty of people start drinking and doing drugs to be "cool" dont go with the crowd. Stand out! I almost lost a friend because of drugs so dont go down the wrong path. High school is a blast! So enjoy freshman year(:
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Pretty much everyone is nervous going into high school! Getting through your first week will be the hardest. I know it looks big and scary, but you'll be used to it in no time; plus most people won't have a problem answering your questions if you have any! Meeting the "right" guy... well that is up to you. My advice, don't look for Mr. Right. Honestly don't look at all. If someone asks you on a date... GO! That is what high school is all about, finding out what you like and what you don't like in a relationship. High school is about having fun! I know this is hard advice to take, but just be yourself. Do what you have always done. The people who like you, will like you. Not everyone will always like you and you can't take that to heart! People will love you, for you. You are going to be nervous no matter what advice you get on here. Just take it one step at a time and before you know it you will wonder why you were ever nervous in the first place! Hope this helped(:
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I was really nervous when I started high school too. Lots of friendships drift away and you end up making new friend.
If you want to get along with anyone then just be friendly. You said you're scared of looking and feeling dumb but those people who are outgoing and easy to get along with don't care what people think. So that's what you have to do. Just learn to be confident with yourself and not care what people think.
There are going to be people who judge you and make fun of you and all that for being friendly but those people don't matter. So ignore all that and be happy and make friend.
Join clubs, activities, and sports. That's one of the easiest ways to make friends because you all have something in common.
On meeting the right guy, he'll come to you. Most girls go out looking for the right guy but never really find him.
Just set standards for yourself and things you would like in a guy. Then eventually you will find him. Focus more on school though, you have the rest of your life to find a guy.
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I was the same way so dont think you are the only person going through this cause there are ALOT. Entering a new school scared the crap out of me, and with all the people my age coming from other middle school.. yea I know how it is. But I adapted quickly. How? I got involved in school projects, clubs, ect. You'd be surprised at how many friendships I made just joining clubs and being part of teams in the school. Also, be a nice person as sweets attract more ants than vinegar (is what my mother always told me hehe) and be accepting and open to the many possibilities that will open up before you. Remember, its 4 years so try to enjoy them as they can be some of your best and memorable years.
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