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is it ok to be a lesbian or embareising and how do i ask a girl to have sex with me?
I want to know because im 17 and i in love with a girl but im a girl how do i ask her to have sex with me?please tell me
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You have no reason too be embarassed because you're a lesbian. You're not the ony one who's a lesbian. A bunch of girls around the world are lesbian like you. Your friend, if she's a bi or lesbian tell her that you are, but don't try to have sex with her right away. Be her friend if she asks to have sex, ask her about your friendship. If she really is willing to have sex with you then feel free. Anyways, be her friend first then have sex don't make a move way to quickly slow down.
~MC~
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At 17 you should by now be well aware of your sexual identity. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. Your sexual make up is encoded in your DNA. You had no more choice in your sexual make up than the sex you were born as or the color of your eyes. So you have nothing to be embarrassed about. Embrace who you are and enjoy your life.
As to your friend. I would suggest that it might be appropriate to come out and tell her your a lesbian. Tell her that as your friend you wanted her to know so see didn't need to wonder or be concerned that you might come on to her. Also you are open to answering any questions she may have. Assure her, even though you want to have a sexual relationship with her,(you don't tell her that) that you will not try to seduce her.
If she is bi or a lesbian herself you have given her the opportunity to tell you and then the two of you can, if you both desire, to move forward into a sexual relationship.
If you value her friendship do not try to seduce her. Any furthering of the relationship into a sexual relationship has to be first on her terms after you come out to her.
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i have the same problem. the girl is bi and knows i like her but doesn't know i want to act on it. i just text her often and plan to be close friends with her and wait to see what happens:)
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It is ABSOLUTELY ok to be who you are, in the same way that it's ok for that person to have brown hair and the person over there to have blonde hair. It's all compliments of our genetic coding.
On the sex thing, in my humble (and old) opinion, friends first, sex later. Unless you're just looking for a meaningless sex-up, in which case all bets are off, I guess.
My sincere best wishes. In this and all things, just be yourself - be true to yourself and you'll be ever so much happier.
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Your sexual orientation is who you are, There isn't anything wrong with being gay/lesbian/bisexual.
Like I said, Better off approaching a close friend or a friend of a friend.
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