Okay, my best friend told me she was lesbian this morning, and I'm attracted to her. I afraid to tell her I'm lesbian, and she's really sexy, and I don't think she likes me like that. She hits on me, and I act disgusted, but I'm really not. I'm afraid she'd turn me down if she knew I was lesbian. What should I do?
parsimoniousdino answered Saturday June 23 2012, 3:46 pm: She's your best friend and that's not going to change if you tell her you're into her. You should hit on her and see how she reacts. Don't be afraid. By the fact that she was comfortable enough to tell you she's a lesbian, you should be comfortable to share that you are also a lesbian. She could already know. [ parsimoniousdino's advice column | Ask parsimoniousdino A Question ]
JustJessOx answered Friday June 22 2012, 9:57 pm: Hwy there,
You shouldn't be afraid to tell her you're a lesbian. She had the courage to tell you?. Don't act disgusted. Why should you feign an act? If she hits on you then why would she turn you down? She is a lesbian too remember so what's the problem here? You are both lesbians you are both attracted to one another so go for it.
Don't be ashamed of who you are and act disgusted. Don't pretend to be something you're not.
Tell her how you feel. Nothing to lose everything to gain.
It's not like she's a lesbian and you're straight and vice versa.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
Xui answered Friday June 22 2012, 9:01 pm: If your friend told you she liked girls then what is the problem? I don't think she would turn you down if she knew you were attracted to her. Just go for it [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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