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would you forgive him for having a baby with another woman?
My boyfriend hand a baby by someone else during the time we are together he attended all her classes, doc visit and birth i found out when the baby was 3 months
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Okkay, it's one thing to get over your boyfriend cheating on you, but, you need to show him how mad you are! Just act how you really feel . And, if he thinks your worth it, he'd stick around apologizing to you everyday. Even if you completely ignored him for a LONG time. Then he might be worth your time. But he needs to know what he did was wrong ! He needs to know how much he crossed the line and that it's not okay! But don't over-do it and definitely don't under -do it. And definitely don't show him anything that he might think that you need him, or are desperate. Because when guys think you need them or are desperate, they think they can get away with anything.
But. It's a huge WHOLE DIFFERENT thing If he had a kid with someone and to top that off he lied to say it was yours? Gurl , ain't nobody need or deserve someone like that . I don't care how desperate or lonely you could be or are feeling. And I don't care how cute or charming he could be or was. Guess what. He isn't anymore . He is a selfish, heartbreaking, chauvinist pig. He doesn't care about you . But lots and tons of other guys probably do and will . That pig has a child to raise, although I hope that they adopt it out or something . There is no place for a poor child in a situation like that.
So, did you get my Answer ? It's no.
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No.
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To put it simply: No. I could never, ever get over that.
-Laura (20-f)
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How could you even think about forgiving him after he cheated on you to begin with?
This man betrayed you, lied too you and broke your trust.
As Rahzie said below I also could never forgive someone for having a child with someone else and never mind that, but leading me to believe otherwise for 3 months.
Dump him and cut contact with him, that simple
He is a liar and now he has a child in his life.
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I might have been able to forgive my partner for cheating on me, and ending up with a child with another women.
I could NEVER forgive a man for lying to me for months about the ongoing relationship with that women and the child.
So no. I wouldn't forgive that.
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This is a despicable crime. I would never forgive such a betrayal. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. Leave him, if he was so low as to do that, he doesn't deserve you. You deserve the best man out there. Don't let him get away with it! Good luck :)
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